Magna and mjt -
I don't think your experience is limited to just UT. At one time or another I tried out maybe a half dozen "for fee" chat rooms figuring that even one good idea a month could be worth the cost.
Problem was that everyone I tried turned out to be very similar to your descriptions. One room that I found especially obnoxious was run by some guy named Waxie.
Very similar to what you describe (at least in my opinion/experience) - no exits (no trade management suggestions at all), entries always appeared to hit the wire with his entry price (apparently he didn't bother to tell those paying his outrageous fee until he was already in) and his entry price was often long gone by the time the message appeared so you could already have missed 1/2 point or more, usually no expectations for the trade offered and no trade management suggested, and if a position suddenly reversed you only found out sometime later what the supposed exit was (you of course were supposed to have "managed it" yourself). Also asking for clarification about a call or expectations was forbidden.
As everyone knows, entries are fairly easy. It's the trade management and exits that determines whether your entry was profitable or a bust.
The guy could be the world's best trader for all I know (or care at this point) and maybe the service has improved, but being a great trader and running a good trading chatroom/service are two different things. And an endless stream of meaningless "we are the best in the whole world" hype just left a bad taste in my mouth.
I didn't feel that what you were getting from any of these chatrooms/services justified the hefty fees being charged.
So after all that, I'm overly skeptical of all of them. It is definitely a caveat emptor environment and if you're considering shelling out the dough for something like that, I suggest you only do so if they actually provide trade management calls along with the entry calls so you can easily measure their performance and don't get slapped with the "manage it" type of response that often disguises many sins.
Otherwise, as long as you're still going to be on your own to try to make the entry calls turn out profitably anyway, forget the chatroom and spend part of that cash (up to $3500-6000/yr) on hardware and software to help signal decent entries and maybe even help you "manage it".
Good luck.