For me doesn't matter. I don't really fuck with options either, but you don't have to.
To put things simply, the mega cap stocks are all hedged in vol, and for simplicity, you can just think of "vol" as options prices. Higher implied vol means more expensive options. Now, traders will short vol and hedge greeks to take advantage of a temporary repricing of vol, since it's trading in real-time. (they can dynamically hedge during DTE or arb into a riskless position).
The truth is, unless you are constantly hedging greeks, in a very serious way, you don't really have to know everything about options, even with how central this trade is to modern markets.
If you have edge on vol, you have edge on the index by default due to what Desty calls vol-corr. Also, the vol trading doesn't always play nice with the trading in D1.
Bottom line is this -- index vol, equity vol, index spreads, rates, and vwaps are always relevant.
The mega caps are hedged in vol, but the hedge can be traded in a million different ways, is constantly decaying, is listed and marginable, and essentially leads the global equity market (opt price ~ vol).
Options are hard because the fake experts don't actually have real expertise, or because the education is marketed towards professionals in finance. They need a different skill set than super modern, leveraged, speculative traders need.
That expertise comes from actually trading vol, the index leveraged, or really any of the modern trades in the market.