Took me two years and about 75% of initial trading capital (which wasn't big to begin with) to go from total newbie to consistantly profitable trader. It certainly wasn't single realisation. It was more like pieces of puzzle coming together one by one until things clicked. Each big loss (there were three of them, huge chunks lost on single trade) served as a lesson. Fortunately, last one put me merely in position "can't lose anymore" - not a good position to be in but still better than "can't trade anymore".
Start of recovery was not an immediate process - took several months of ascillations near the borderline... up, down, up, down... All this process dgradually worked out to finding that elusive "edge" - zone of my personal comfort, both psychological and trading system wise. Minor setbacks that occured after 1998 were just that - usual for any profitable trader temporary retreats that were dealt with properly thanks to experience accumulated in those toughest two years.
Hard to list everything that helped or was understood in short post. Many previous posters listed very correct things that worked for me also, and I already wrote plenty on this topic... nonetheless, if you got particular questions I'll be glad to try and answer.
Start of recovery was not an immediate process - took several months of ascillations near the borderline... up, down, up, down... All this process dgradually worked out to finding that elusive "edge" - zone of my personal comfort, both psychological and trading system wise. Minor setbacks that occured after 1998 were just that - usual for any profitable trader temporary retreats that were dealt with properly thanks to experience accumulated in those toughest two years.
Hard to list everything that helped or was understood in short post. Many previous posters listed very correct things that worked for me also, and I already wrote plenty on this topic... nonetheless, if you got particular questions I'll be glad to try and answer.
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