Quote from AAAintheBeltway:
Some good points made, particularly by profitseer. There are many things to consider. Personally, I like to use market action rather than an arbitrary price movement to dictate exits. The initial stop is a disaster stop that I really hope doesn't get hit. Generally I have a pretty good idea if things are looking ok or not and I ideally will exit quickly if they don't feel right. I know from backtesting that tight stops are not optimal and will often destroy a good system, but backtesting can't capture your feel when you're in the trade. After the trade has cleared the noise zone, however you define that, then it is a question of first, protecting b/e, and second, deciding what will dictate your exit. I feel a trailing stop is a very poor method of exiting, because you are always getting out on weakness(if long). Still, you don't want to give the whole trade back if you miss a better exit. What I like to do is first, try to hold till the close, second, try to exit on a spike, third, exit on a pattern failure or reversal bar, and finally, if I'm still in a trade that is profitable but losing altitude rapidly, try to retain at least 50% of max profit.
This is similar to how I manage my winners as well - I started using a 3 EMA setup to keep me in "the trend within the trend".
Also looking at longer candles (20, 30, 60 min for example) helps me not get faked out of my trades too soon.
but it is not easy to find it so let's rather behave as it doesn't exist since it is the case of the huge majority and as a consequence you have to chose BEFORE TAKING ANY TRADE what framework you favor: either a 1:1 ratio gain with high probability (scalp style) or a 1:2 or 1:3 ratio gain with low probability (swing style). if you try to mix the two you are trying to realise the nearly impossible and you will lose with a probability of one at term. It doesn't imply that you can't exit with a 1:1 ratio or even less in the swing framework it means that when you do so it is because you have proved yourself you were wrong and not that you are scalping since it is not the framework you supposedly chose when entering this trade.
and I will admit that I have suffered from this problem in the past...