Quote from themickey:
My thoughts on becoming successful in trading if you come from a non trading background: (by this I mean starting from the ground up).
I takes total dedication and being focused to the degree you need to be a bit of a loner / hermit / unsociable.
You either have the money so you can work this out full time - day and night without needing to be employed elsewhere or....
You work as an employee within a day or night job and in your spare time eat, live and breath trading designing and testing.
As for a social life / wife / girlfriend, forget it as these things become a distraction.
That's my experience.
Once 'you have made it' then brain needs to allow yourself to relax and have a life. I haven't quite reached this stage.
Do yourself a favor.
Relax for a minute.
Starting out takes 15 to 20 minutes a day and a very simple rule set.
You have just had an very unfortunate experience getting involved via "truisms" of the CW.
There was an alternative. It isw the route takn by NON-wizards who are very successful amateurs or amateurs who went pro as trader support people.
If you could just relax for a couple of weeks, you may be able to rid yourself of your present process of learning repeted failure.
Willaim J. O'Neill did not start the way you are but he did make a record of how to start and really be great.
He spent 27 months building 500 bucks into his career starting capital. And he chose to publish a replacement, so to speak, for the WSJ from the West coast.
He wrote a book for the caual observer of markets. It was NOT written for a HYPED person.
"How to Make Money in Stocks" could be the cure for your approaching dilemma which is putting you where you tell us you wound up.
I suggested to DH that he take a moment to include William J O'Neill and his orientation for getting rich effectively and efficiently.
This paperback is written for an ignorant person who is curious enough to get hooked by the title.
It takes an average person about no time to read it. you haven't read it and I know this because of your posted present attitude and intensity. So I feel sorry for you and your new friend.
O'Neill is a followup guy. "24 Essential Lessons for Investment Success" was written later. It was a follow up of an IBD series entitled "26 Weeks to Investment Success". "24" is thinner than "HTMMIS".
Dark Horse calculated how fast my beginners start off: 1000% a year. They dig O'Neill because they have the books and ask Q's about the contents.
On page 173 of "24" you can read O'neill's bio. In just over half a page (something like the length of one of DH's insipid quotes) you read how O'Neil got a 20 fold increase in capital in 27 months.
So read the books. Make it a rules to spend 15 to 20 minutes a day setting up your porfolio for the day and take enough out of the market every week to keep yourself amused and well travelled.
When you get well off, teach someone to handle your accounts. That's what my brother did for my father to do for my Mother. My mother got confused about how many bank accounts that were "full" (meaning insured to the hilt) could be kept in one bank. She wanted to know specifically where to put the surpluses being swept from her manged trading accounts.
Would it be possible to teach one of your siblings? then could he/she teach your dad? Then could your dad teach his broker to do trading as your dad daos? then when your dad dies would your sibling be able to keep your Mon advised? Or could you learn to trade soon?