Trading is a negative sum game. This is casino.
Lot of losers give money to few winners. One big winner, the casino (broker).
Of course some losers could think they are winners because they had some luck.
But at the end, they give all to the broker and the winners.
And newbies arrive to replace the dead losers. Winners stay and enjoy fresh meat.
"On a long enough timeline the survival rate for everyone drops to zero. "
There are stocks that can be positive sum provided the company has returned more money to shareholders via dividends than its total market capitalization. But this is clearly not the case for most stocks. Investors have in general paid more money than the returns they have received from dividends, which the industry calls "multiples expansion". Basically, if you haven't doubled your original investment from dividends, you haven't walked away scott free. Not doubling your investment from dividends almost feels like not paying down the mortgage yet, even if you have the keys to your house and still live in it. Its just not complete because the bank still owns you.
Also, we can only judge whether a stock is zero sum, positive sum, or negative sum, after the fact when the company goes bankrupt because we need to analyze the entire lifetime of the investment and sum all market participants. This clearly hasn't happened yet with many stocks either. If we can't analyze the lifetime of the investment, then we can't make a judgement from this. And we clearly can't analyze if the stocks are still trading.
So, it is entirely possible for people to keep throwing money at companies (even quality ones) at all time highs, and for those stocks to grow a few years to decades, and then for them to drop to zero and make net losers out of participants. Not likely, but possible.
Thats why its good to be in the middle man business. A lot of smart people play many of the middleman roles either as a broker or as a market maker. Some even become billionaires as part of that business like Thomas Peterffy and Ken Griffin. Or be a fees taker and salary earner like an advisor or hedge fund manager charging 2-20.