Agreed 100%. NoDoji first outlined this actually in my journal months ago where she talked about how given whatever stop you want to use, the entry has to be within that stop, so often if you want to go long with a tight stop, it actually means that you would be filled as price is coming down just above the support area of swing low or whatever you're using as your stop. It is such a radical change in thinking to be entering orders not because of what is happening, but because of where you have to get in based on where the stop is going to be to show that the trade might in fact not work.
The FOMO for me is huge, and yet, where I should be entering the trade based on what I've seen after looking at hundreds of charts, in real time, to enter there seems scary because there is zero confirmation. But as NoDoji also says, the best trades are the ones that never feel right.
Being positioned before the move is a killer tactic, and you have no idea how many times I wanted to get in, right at the hesitation, then I see it drop, just like I thought it would, then I'm stuck going through FOMO and wondering if I can still get a better entry for a short slightly higher and.... etc.... well you know the drill I'm sure!
Now I will say this though... that while watching what little I have of the T&S, I do like it when I see big orders coming in, being hit at the bid or ask depending on the direction I'm looking for, so I might still wait for this. I also see that sometimes, when price initially goes against the direction after getting in, if the move in the opposite direction has no size or urgency, even though price might move a few ticks in this direction, its calming. Without the big orders buying at the ask, even if price goes up 2 points, it still now doesn't seem to scare me as much if I'm watching T&S and I'm in a short because this little move up doesn't seem to have strength. If its just a trickle, it sure looks like its more of the big players loading up on shorts. Comments?