I have often thought it would be helpful to have a "traders anonymous" 12 step program for traders!
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I have often thought it would be helpful to have a "traders anonymous" 12 step program for traders!
This is not to say humans cannot be logical and relate to cold, hard facts, but may need the right temperament or training for it. However, often when we see someone excel at something, humans instinctively tend to think there's some magic short-cut behind it, not thousands of hours of analysis and training, rewirings of the brain as well as machine.
So Do I but there is a misconceptionWith this I agree for 100%.
You are right that there is a misconception, but not the one you think about.So Do I but there is a misconception
Wrong. The only certainty in life is that the moment when you are born you know for 100% sure you will die one day. Tell me what other certainties there are.1)Humans are wired for certainty in decisions , trading does not offer certainty
Wrong. We have a need for certainties, but can function perfectly with a high probability as certainties don’t exist. We live and choose in reality on (what we think are) high probabilities, not certainties. And the only certainty we have, we try to avoid. Nobody likes to die.2)Humans have a need to be right , on placing trades , market is always right traders are not
Wrong. Some humans, or even many, do. But good traders don’t. They have a plan and have statistical evidence of high probabilities about the results. They know that certainties don’t exist and choose for (what they think is) the best available option.3)Humans have reactive patterns , they are not robots.Humans trade reactively
Wrong. Good traders know that emotional trading is lethal, and know they have to trade rational. They learned how to do this like we teach our children how to drive a car.4)Humans have emotions and their decisions are made by their emotional brain , it is faster than the rational brain
Wrong. Good traders reduce stress by watching their statistical evidence of high probabilities about the results. Each and every day their trading will confirm their statistical evidence of high probabilities about the results, resulting in lots of confidence, or in other words in reducing the stress. Stress is a result of people doing things without understanding, or controlling, what they do. Trading but not knowing where this will go, causes stress. Those who have a plan and their statistical evidence of high probabilities about the results, know within certain limits where they will go. Their statistics will tell them. In fact they already know this even before initiating a trade.5)Human brain is wired to produce for stress responses , trading is very stressful and is done with stress reponses .....i.e fight flight flee
Wrong. Losses are an inevitable part of trading. Nobody can avoid all losses. Good traders don’t try to avoid losses as they are irrelevant, they try to avoid not to follow the plan on which their statistical evidence of high probabilities about the results is based. Because if they do, their statistical evidence of high probabilities about the results, is worthless.6)humans don't like taking a loss , they will avoid a loss at any cost ...............free advice from goons is cut your losses
Wrong. Good traders calculate risk mathematically. They NEVER judge on anything else.7)human brain is a poor judge of risk
8)The emotional brain is trading not the rational brain (this is why systems , methods are free , yet 95% lose).
Tell me what the hidden agendas are? Or maybe you don’t know as they are still hidden for you too? “Trade the system , method or trend and you will be a successful trader” is correct. But only on 2 conditions:Trade the system , method or trend and you will be a succesful trader is promoted by internet marketeers with hidden agendas.
You are right that there is a misconception, but not the one you think about.
Wrong. The only certainty in life is that the moment when you are born you know for 100% sure you will die one day. Tell me what other certainties there are.
1)Humans are wired for certainty in decisions , trading does not offer certainty
Your analogy is wrong , death has nothing to with trading , it is not similiar.
When you cross a road , you look for certainty , there is no car coming or you will cross faster than the car hitting you.Either way , in trading , you need certainty of profit , this is where many traders get it wrong
Wrong. We have a need for certainties, but can function perfectly with a high probability as certainties don’t exist. We live and choose in reality on (what we think are) high probabilities, not certainties. And the only certainty we have, we try to avoid. Nobody likes to die.
.You are wrong again , you are talking about a perfect world .We can function with just high probability , we are also influenced by emotional hijacks , the need to be right and stress responses.
Wrong. Some humans, or even many, do. But good traders don’t. They have a plan and have statistical evidence of high probabilities about the results. They know that certainties don’t exist and choose for (what they think is) the best available option.
3)Humans have reactive patterns , they are not robots.Humans trade reactively
Wrong again .You are talking about perfect traders or good traders , they don't exist on forums to tell the tale or there are no qualified people to advise others about human mind and succesful traders.The majority of cluless posters are paid to pretend and talk about the perfect traders , to create positive atmosphere , these payments usually come from sponsors and advertisers .
Wrong. Good traders know that emotional trading is lethal, and know they have to trade rational. They learned how to do this like we teach our children how to drive a car.
You are wrong again , emotional brain controls trader .We can function with just high probability , we are also influenced by emotional hijacks , the need to be right and stress responses.It is your lack of understanding of the human mind.
Wrong. Good traders reduce stress by watching their statistical evidence of high probabilities about the results. Each and every day their trading will confirm their statistical evidence of high probabilities about the results, resulting in lots of confidence, or in other words in reducing the stress. Stress is a result of people doing things without understanding, or controlling, what they do. Trading but not knowing where this will go, causes stress. Those who have a plan and their statistical evidence of high probabilities about the results, know within certain limits where they will go. Their statistics will tell them. In fact they already know this even before initiating a trade.
You are wrong again , stress responses are natural ancestral brain responses .We can function with just high probability , we are also influenced stress responses.It is your lack of understanding of the human mind and it's behaviour response to stress.
Wrong. Losses are an inevitable part of trading. Nobody can avoid all losses. Good traders don’t try to avoid losses as they are irrelevant, they try to avoid not to follow the plan on which their statistical evidence of high probabilities about the results is based. Because if they do, their statistical evidence of high probabilities about the results, is worthless.
The majority of posters are paid to pretend and talk about the perfect traders.Real traders know what it is like losing , the emotions involved and going through drawdowns.
Wrong. Good traders calculate risk mathematically. They NEVER judge on anything else.
You are wrong again.It is your lack of understanding of the human mind and it's behaviour judgement of risk.
Tell me what the hidden agendas are? Or maybe you don’t know as they are still hidden for you too? “Trade the system , method or trend and you will be a successful trader” is correct.
Several years ago , a forum owner was receiving rebates from brokers , if they opened brokerage accounts.He even banned members who were realistic or negative , his goons and pretenders were paid to create a positive atmosphere on the forum .It would lead more brokerage accounts being opened .It was all in the interest of sponsorship money from brokers and rebates.So the goons basically tried to misinform the members about the reality of trading
But only on 2 conditions:
- Trade and NEVER break the rules, and you will approach the statistical evidence of high probabilities about the results. At least if you calculated everything correctly.
- Have a system that, based on the statistical evidence of high probabilities about the results, is profitable. Because otherwise you will have statistical proof that you will lose money. Stats work in both ways.
Your statements make 1 thing very clear: you are not a successful trader and never will be if you don't change your attitude.
My attitude is fine , I know real trading , I am not just one of the pretenders working as a forum poster .
I was registered on 02/25/2013. You were registered on 09/15/2016.
I made 912 posting, so average 0.676 postings a day.
You made 498 posting, so average 9.764 postings a day.
So you post 14.44 times more than me. It is clear that YOU are the forum poster and not me.
About the real trading psychology. My partner has a university degree in psychology. I don't make this up now, I posted this already in another thread on ET in past. I have a fairly good idea about real trading phsychology and how the human brain works.
I have +20 years of trading the S&P. Started before the Emini was launched. So at 250$ a point. Orders were still given by phone. Daytraders were still hard to find at that time.
I wrote very clearly why you are wrong, but you don't reply on any of these reactions from my side. Only real arguments have value. Vague statements like you make, without any proof, are irrelevant. Reading on internet is no professional reference to me. Anybody can write any nonsense there. Webinars are also not really a good reference.
Not me, but you you are demonstrating the human "need to be right ". Proof? You wrote this:"I even called an S and P trade here , in advance and the methodology , and I can see the S and P does not trend twice daily , again these beliefs are more of your delusions on S and P trending twice a day."
It is not because you are blind and cannot see that the S&P does not trend twice a day. Last week I did 13 trades (winners and losers) in 5 days. All trendfollowing trades with average net profit per trade (total net weekly profit divided by 13 trades, so included losing trades) over 5 points net (don't want to give exact figures). Net average profit per day was beyond 10 points net. So there are clearly more trends than 1 a day on average.
It is not because you are blind and cannot see that the S&P does not trend twice a day. Last week I did 13 trades (winners and losers) in 5 days. All trendfollowing trades with average net profit per trade (total net weekly profit divided by 13 trades, so included losing trades) over 5 points net (don't want to give exact figures). Net average profit per day was beyond 10 points net. So there are clearly more trends than 1 a day on average.
trading brings us face to face with ourselves which is why it's so hard. Robert from Lightspeed posted a webinar here that I did on trader mindset that might help you see why this is happening. I'd suggest first, try not to beat yourself up, 2nd don't listen to traders who don't understand the impact of psychology on trading. Consider getting some support so you can get clear what is going on inside you. It sounds like a mindset issue, not a trading issue.
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Just work it out . 65 ticks a week , compound it every month and you should be MTRADER forum billionaire.
Your story does not add up , because like those of all the succesful forum traders , you would be a forum billionaire by now .
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