Quote from Instynct:
In my situation it is as if there is this losing mentality that has had a grip on me. This bastard wants me to see 10 pt unrealized winners turn into losers (yes that has happened recently)⦠enter a long entry before price has come to me and get out right where I know buyers will step up because itâs too painful to hold on⦠buying at the top of the run instead of waiting for a pullback because of the fear of missing out⦠I can go on but I think you get the picture.
Itâs been about a week since your post and I believe Iâve reached bottom, or at least getting real close. Iâve not considered myself a loser in your definition, just someone in the process of becoming a winner. I can do better than this. Be patient with me, as Iâm a slow learner. Take care and thanks for your post.
Possibly it is a losing mentalityâ¦, likely it is guilt
Here are a couple of suggestions to resolve it Sirâ¦
Seek out that which is causing it, and forgive⦠even try to make amends
If that is not an optionâ¦
Sit quietly and write out a letter to that which is the causeâ¦, spell and spill out everythingâ¦
Then in the closing paragraph â forgive yourself
Once the letter is complete, file it in your filing cabinet for safe keeping
fwiw â I have two such letters
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We canât control otherâs beliefs or actions (past, present, or future)â¦.
We can control how others affect usâ¦
We can control our actionsâ¦
We can forgive our selfâ¦
And
We can let go and move on
Maybe I'm all wrong on this... maybe I'm not... Best you be the judge Sir
RN