to my view, fear is from being unprepared. the market is full of uncertainty. if you do not admit it consiously, then you will be full of fear.
to deal with fear, you need first admit the market is uncontrollable and it is full of uncertainty. the only thing you can control is yourself. that is why we trader need a plan. in the plan, tell yourself what you should do under different market situations (must be detailed). you can not freeze before unpredicted market movements, your pray does not work, your wishful thinking does not work, ...... the only thing you need do is you need firmly stick with your plan, and you know it will be good.
so bascially to me, I view trading as a gambling activity.
I did not see 1000 point drop in 5five minutes in dow as a threat if I have a 30points stop loss there, or 100points mental stops, since I know I will not lose 1000points in five minutes. so whatever unpredictable things will not seriously wound me. am I afraid of those 1000points drop? no, the worst is I toke 30points loss, that is it. further, if I am afraid of market suspection/halting (or limitdown/limitup traps), I reduce my size to an insignificant level, even without stop loss, it does not do any hurt to me. so I am not afraid at all.
I am just using hard stop loss and size reduction to manage risk. it is a great way to become better trading
to deal with fear, you need first admit the market is uncontrollable and it is full of uncertainty. the only thing you can control is yourself. that is why we trader need a plan. in the plan, tell yourself what you should do under different market situations (must be detailed). you can not freeze before unpredicted market movements, your pray does not work, your wishful thinking does not work, ...... the only thing you need do is you need firmly stick with your plan, and you know it will be good.
so bascially to me, I view trading as a gambling activity.
I did not see 1000 point drop in 5five minutes in dow as a threat if I have a 30points stop loss there, or 100points mental stops, since I know I will not lose 1000points in five minutes. so whatever unpredictable things will not seriously wound me. am I afraid of those 1000points drop? no, the worst is I toke 30points loss, that is it. further, if I am afraid of market suspection/halting (or limitdown/limitup traps), I reduce my size to an insignificant level, even without stop loss, it does not do any hurt to me. so I am not afraid at all.
I am just using hard stop loss and size reduction to manage risk. it is a great way to become better trading
Quote from oldschool:
Personally, I think the fear of losing comes from a lack of confidence to bail when you're wrong. Some are disciplined enough to close out a losing position manually while others (geez comes to mind) always places hard stops.
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