Quote from PoundTheRock:
Agree, "trading is war" is a goddawful cliche for those who never actually fought one.
Good point, Trading is War is a bogus argument.
Here is what Mark Douglas has to say about trading is war.
The following is an informal interview of Mr. Douglas' cerebral and practical approach to trading.
1. My question of Mark would be "How do you keep yourself psychologically fresh for this battle day in and day out?
Answer:
First of all, if trading is a battle and you don't want it to be, then you've got some work to do. Ultimately, to get to the point where you can make money on a consistent basis your trading will have to evolve to the level of being easy and fun. Getting ready for a battle implies there's going to be a struggle of some sort. On the other hand, when something is fun you wouldn't need to prepare yourself for a struggle.
When I say you've got work to do, I mean there are several "psychological" trading skills that have to acquire before anyone's trading gets to the point where it is consistently easy and fun. All of these skills and how to acquire them are explained in detail in both of my books "The Disciplined Trader" and Trading In The Zone."
Besides reading my books, you also might want to explore your true motivation for trading, because I've found that many people love the battle and all of the drama that goes with it. And even though they tire of it from time to time they have no intention of giving it up.
I would also ask to you consider if it's really the market you are struggling against. I look at the market as a steady, never ending stream of opportunities to enrich oneself. Each up or down tic gives each of us as traders the opportunity to get into, add too, detract from or exist a position for a profit or to cut a loss. "The Market" has no control over how we perceive these up or down tics, the decisions we make or the actions we take. So who or what are you actually getting ready to struggle against?
I have a suggestion that could have a very positive impact on your trading results. Consider "not trading" on the days that it's a struggle. There's no rule that says that you have to trade everyday. Except, of course, the one that may be in your mind. One of the most important principles of success I teach traders is if they're not in the best "state of mind" to trade, then not trading is the same a putting money in the bank.