Quote from SoxxClinton:
Trading is brutal man. In hindsight (I am 37 now) it would have been 10 times easier to follow through on my top rank education and a developing career as an analyst at a major bank. Maybe even more lucrative too by this point.
And I am one of the ones who have made it 10 (almost 11 years) now. I have lived entirely off of trading for almost all that time, outside of maybe six months at the beginning, when my girlfriend supported us.
Upsides-
-No boss, office politics, corporate nonsense.
-No set hours (I am not a day trader so I can even blow the market hours off if I feel like it).
-No commute, suits, etc.
-No sales, marketing, etc.
-If I do a good job, it all accrues to me. I get rewarded based on performance: no subjective assessments, no negotiations, contracts, profit sharing, etc.
-Time to study other things, read, or even goof off if I feel like it.
-Intellectual gratification. I like #'s and the study of systems, time series, options, etc. are fascinating to me. I always have more to learn.
Downsides-
-I bear all the downside risk.
-Skills not really portable in the sense that my resume is now nearly worthless from a hiring managers point of view. I would have to start from scratch somewhere most likely.
-No medical insurance.
-Social isolation.
-Feast or famine pay schedule. Good months, bad months, Good quarters, bad quarters. I make more money than the average american, but I might make it all in one or two great months a year.
-No feeling of having contributed to society or being part of a team.
Now all the the downsides have remedies to some extent, but after working my ass off, I am often too exhausted to join a running club, volunteer, etc. all the things that would improve the quality of life.
So like the poker players say, "Trading is a Hard Way to Make an Easy Living".
Maybe I am just one of those guys who is destined to be a grinder at this game, making my living, but certainly not making any headlines, kind of a joe sixpack of private traders. I don't know, maybe a bunch of other guys here make tons of money and turn it into something glamorous, but it hasn't been that way at all for me. Without the "love of the game" factor that keeps me going on, trading would turn into a special kind of hell, not unlike being in a cubicle, or on an assembly line, or all the other things people do to support themselves.
In the end, my Dad was right- To paraphrase "If you don't enjoy what you are doing it is going to suck".