Quote from Nana Trader:
well, this expat is a newzealander who owns the website
www.stickmanbangkok.com. He is a english teacher getting
paid 30,000 bhat/ monthe, and he loves the place.
The other poster "Chris Spekreijse" is a "big time loser"
who simply can't fit into Thai culture or may be any foreign society.
The real probelm in thailand is finding a job, first priority goes
to thai people, otherwise millions of farangs dreaming of working
in thailand, who gives a shit about getting thai passport, owning
a land, and other type of securities..........Thailand is a place to
live good life, not a place to give you protections
residence permit, owning a business, even if you marry a
local and have children is easily done, with little investment
where you have to invest several times that money to get
those benifit in other western countries.,
Btw thailand will never refuse your visa unless you have
acted like an as...
Well what can I say?
I've been to LOS (land of smile) just 3 months, so my opinion surely is not of any significance.
Anyway when I travel , I like to read anything I can find about the country I want to visit.
And we all know , nowadays the best resource for this type of readings is the web. (screw lonely planet guide!).
probably, most of the people who write their impression on their staying or even the real expats, tend to highlight the problems they find in their new home.
Said that, I think it's always a good idea to have a look at what other people say of their experience (hey after all that's why forums like ET are so successful )
Just one advice, if you are not a very disciplined person, avoid at any cost the bar girls, addiction is very easy, and they can drive you crazy in less time you can imagine.
They are not like western prostitutes, they are so good you think they really like you or even love you, sadly most of them 've been raised in this business, and they know very well, how to make money out of a farang. Remember it's just a business and whatever they say to you, they are screwing others 2000 people and sayng them the same sad story ( mama needs help....my little brother is so sick..., dad is broken...bla bla bla).
Jesus Christ they actually have dozen of men from all over the world who send them money on a monthly basis, and these fool think they are the only one

.
Just take a look at the internet cafes , there are people ( many expats too) who works there just to translate and write for these girls, who have dozen and dozen of email addresses :eek:
Anyway the country is absolutely spectacular and actually thai people are very friendly, but you'll be always a stranger, and I don't mean like an American in Europe or vice versa.
their background is miles away from us that it's refreshing at the beginning, but I'm sure in the long run, it can be a problem for some people.