Quote from vital-analitix:
exactly my experience and opinion! Lived also in the Phillipines (6 years) and a year in Bali. Even when you speak the local lingo in Bali you will still not be accepted, spoke to a number of expats married to local girls there.
I don't know about Bali, they are hindus, not Buddhism. Again i repeat if learn to speak, eat, act little bit thai and not stupid, you will be more than accepted here.
I don't mean taking over their country. I have been living on and off here for last 6 years, and my views not changed at all, even got better.
) If so, then the rest is details.