Hello...
Been trading for 2 years. Lucky at the beginning, dumb afterwards. Sideways for a year and then in August and September 2 (two) big relative losses, one in SNAP on August 10 for $1k , where I got rug pulled and didnt want to accept my stop loss and one in September in NIO. After that I stopped trading live, went back to paper trading. But even there, my discipline is non existent. Overtrading a lot, oversizing a lot, position sizing is flawed. It is not my winners that are causing my problems, but what I do with my losers. And when I see red, I get over aggressive, trading subpar signals, instead of winding down. No clue how and if it is fixable. Paper trading hasnt helped. I dont want to lose my money, but I don't know if this is even achievable. Anyone experienced the same?thanks
You need to develop a trading system. It looks like you do not have a concrete trading system that clearly specifies what to do in all of the possible scenarios that can happen during trading so when something unexpected happens during your trading, you get caught totally off-guard and just trade however your emotion dictates. We have all been there and done that. The results are disheartening but we all eventually learn from that and move on and you will too.
What I would suggest you do is go back and review your trading performance (hope you kept a trading journal or remembered what you did or did not do during your trading)regardless of whether you made a profit or loss and see what worked and what didn't work and develop a trading plan/system based on that. Take that plan/system and backtest it and fine-tune it to ensure that it will work in all possible market scenarios. And then forward test it in demo trading to further ensure that it will be consistently profitable. And then finally take it to live trading and trade in small positions to work out its kinks and then finally trade in the desired trading sizes. You are going to be spending a very long time in demo trading and no trading profit coming in but you won't be losing any money either and preserving capital for future trading.
Once you developed a solid trading plan/system, discipline will become second nature to you because you will have the confidence that it's a proven working system and all you have to do is follow it.
