Trading and Dating

[gordo]

Quote from Trish:

Electric locks......do we lean over and clumsily open a heavy car door from the passenger seat?

No.. but it's the effort.. the intended action.. the thought that is important.. the idea that you are taking a moment to consider your date and make a gesture.

Gordo

 

[annaland]

Quote from Mike805:

I personally don't mind small boobs. What I don't like is when a woman is insecure with her body.

For example - I dated this girl at one point who would only have sex/be nude with the lights off. She didn't want me to see something about her body that would deter my interest. Mind you she was very attractive (great body) but she wasn't comfortable in her own skin. I think its because she didn't respect herself or something like that... thats a self esteem issue.

On the other hand, I know a girl who got a boob job and she was 10 times happier for it. It wasn't a dramatic change or anything (went from a B cup to C), it just made her like her body all that much more. I don't see anything wrong with that.

I just don't understand how you can be happier with plastic for tits instead of a B cup. Don't get me wrong, there are things I'd change about myself, but not with plastic or surgery, especially when I’d know it wasn’t real! What’s the point? I’d rather spend the money on the A8 or the 7 Series.

 

[trader1966]

Oh okay Mike, so once again it is kind of like a guy with an expensive car. I will say this however, the car you chose is not showy and most non-car people would not know how nice it really is. I have actually looked at the same model but since I trade remotely I can't rationalize the expense.

I am guessing you are in your late twenties or early thirties, when I was 27 I bot a used Ferrari 318, so you have better control than I had at the time.

 

[2manywhiners]

Quote from Mike805:

I don't see anything wrong with that.

EDIT: And, as a side note, I think most women know guys check out their breasts. It is advertising in a sense.

Me neither. I guess I just like boobs, even if they are small...

What was her name? I think I dated her too! (jk)

Some women feel like they're marketing with billboards and television, and unfortunately, some feel they're only marketing with a classified ad in the local paper. Wouldn't the world be different if men had to deal with advertising the size of their penis the way women are forced to?

 

[Thunderdog]

Quote from 2manywhiners:

... Try this out on your next date:

When you pick her up, lock all of your doors. Lead her to the passenger door, and then make it a point to unlock the door with the key and not the remote. Open her door, then take her hand as she climbs in. Walk around the rear of the car after you shut her door. Now walk slowly and watch what she does, there is really only 3 possibilities; a) she rummages through her purse or plays with a cell phone; b) she flips down your sunvisor to look in the mirror; or c) she unlocks your door for you. If she looks for a mirror, plays with a cell phone, or rummages through her purse, she's self-centered or self-absorbed. If she unlocks your door for you, she has good character.

I think that your proposed scenario is somewhat contrived if you have a car with a remote (which most newer cars have, and most people know it). Expecting her to play along with your charade is manipulative and she may see it for what it is. No one likes to feel that they are being manipulated or tested. Rather than play innocuous games, you may wish to consider this: Watch how she treats the waiter at the restaurant. In five years, that's how she will be treating you.

 

[Trish]

It is nice to unlock a door for someone who wants to spend time with me.... with the electric locks I don't feel bad not doing it becasue it is easier to use the remote.

I am over that, so is he.

 

[Trish]

"What a woman loves a man for in the beginning, she berates him for in the end."

Ever experience that? I am guilty.

 

[Trish]

Quote from 2manywhiners:

Wouldn't the world be different if men had to deal with advertising the size of their penis the way women are forced to? [/B]

...you charmer...

 

[gordo]

Quote from Mike805:

I personally don't mind small boobs. What I don't like is when a woman is insecure with her body.


Prefer a little curvature myself, it is not a huge priority though. But insecurity is. I like it when a woman just takes decent care of herself. She by no means has to be a model or fitness junkie, but it's nice to see a little care taken without being self-absorbed. A brain with a body is big with me. And proper etiquette will certainly spark my interest. Add depth and a little cooking skill, ..hello.

Gordo

 

[trader1966]

Bingo Gordo, a smart girl with a nice smile will have me every time. Its just too bad most people are actually stupid.