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Quote from trader1966:

Actually, 2many the door thing is beautiful..........Thanks for that one. I can now qualify them before we hit the restaurant.

Electric locks......do we lean over and clumsily open a heavy car door from the passenger seat?
 
Quote from Mike805:

Women get boob jobs for self esteem purposes. What's wrong with a woman wanting to feel better about her body? [/B]

There are different ways to deal with self esteem issues. You can accentuate your positive qualities, which I hope are more significant than the negative (i.e. small boobs), or you can close your eyes and have surgeons put plastic where it doesn’t belong.
 
Quote from trader1966:

I agree with you there Trish, I once had a girlfriend who gave me a necklace as a gift. I hung it on her doorknob one night and never called her again. I also look at a girls home decorating skills, by this I mean do we have the same tastes in furniture etc. Nothing could be worse than marrying a chick with cheesy country cutouts on the wall and a cabinet full of Precious Moments figurines.

You've got that right :(
 
Quote from Trish:

Electric locks......do we lean over and clumsily open a heavy car door from the passenger seat?
Not necessarily, but my driver lock is easily accessible from the passenger seat in my car... It's the thought that counts, if she can find the electric lock switch before I get in, then that is just as good. If she spends 10 seconds looking for it, and it's obvious that's what she was doing, then maybe she's just blonde (and that's nothing to hold against her). The point is, there are women who are willing to make a small effort for you, out of appreciation for you opening the door and taking her hand while she climbed in. And then there are women who expect the things you just did to be done, and they offer nothing in return. It speaks volumes about their character...


Quote from trader1966:

I actually said you sound like a thirteen year old girl...........but that door thing is brilliant......so I take it all back....
rolling... :D
 
Quote from annaland:

There are different ways to deal with self esteem issues. You can accentuate your positive qualities, which I hope are more significant than the negative (i.e. small boobs), or you can close your eyes and have surgeons put plastic where it doesn’t belong.

I personally don't mind small boobs. What I don't like is when a woman is insecure with her body.

For example - I dated this girl at one point who would only have sex/be nude with the lights off. She didn't want me to see something about her body that would deter my interest. Mind you she was very attractive (great body) but she wasn't comfortable in her own skin. I think its because she didn't respect herself or something like that... thats a self esteem issue.

On the other hand, I know a girl who got a boob job and she was 10 times happier for it. It wasn't a dramatic change or anything (went from a B cup to C), it just made her like her body all that much more. I don't see anything wrong with that.

EDIT: And, as a side note, I think most women know guys check out their breasts. It is advertising in a sense.
 
Quote from 2manywhiners:

OUCH!!!

Damn, I decide to add some positive things to an internet message board, and THIS happens? Who the fuck would have thought? By the way, I drive a Volkswagen Beetle. Wasn't it obvious? And it's not pink, It's glorious Sunrise Yellow with airbrushed rainbows on the doors. ChaosNSX wishes he had one...

My point was this: I am wealthy by many of ET's standards. Yes, when you have a walk-in closet full of tailored clothes, you can make references to them as being "a wardrobe" and not actually be gay. Jewelry? C'mon. Give me a break. Ever heard of a trash guy that goes clubbing wearing a Chronoswiss? If your watch, money clip, and sunglasses cost more than a KIA, you'll never convince a woman that you drive one. Women aren't stupid, if you walk into a club wearing $15,000 they're going to know that you're full of shit when you tell them you clean poop off the wall of a public restroom.

As far as 4-of-6... Yes that is good for me, but keep in mind that I wouldn't hit on Renee Zelweger if she weren't a movie star. She's not hot. Brittany Murphy? I've pulled better. Katie Homley? As is apparent, my 4-of-6 is very different from yours.


Try this out on your next date:

When you pick her up, lock all of your doors. Lead her to the passenger door, and then make it a point to unlock the door with the key and not the remote. Open her door, then take her hand as she climbs in. Walk around the rear of the car after you shut her door. Now walk slowly and watch what she does, there is really only 3 possibilities; a) she rummages through her purse or plays with a cell phone; b) she flips down your sunvisor to look in the mirror; or c) she unlocks your door for you. If she looks for a mirror, plays with a cell phone, or rummages through her purse, she's self-centered or self-absorbed. If she unlocks your door for you, she has good character.

Agree with you 2manywhiners. That's something I always take note of when I'm with a lady friend. Funny, the few that have opened the door, even if we do not hit it off romantically, have often become friends.

Gordo
 
Quote from Mike805:



Take into consideration that however stable things seem at the moment, life has a way of throwing shit in your direction when you least expect it. [/B]

That's a mouthful Mike!! You said it..
 
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