Anna, be honest. Would you date an unemployed, college drop out janitor?
Or a garbage man? Or a grave digger?
Telling your girlfriends how your menially employed bf gave it to you good last night.
That's not very sexy.
Did you know Rod Stewart was a grave digger prior to his singing career?
Im not saying he's a good singer, Im not even saying he's someone you'd find "attractive" in his prime let alone as a 60 y.o bag of blob, but I damn well guarantee you any of his model gf wouldnt have touched him if he was holding a shovel instead of microphone.
Women are funny creatures.
The only female species on the planet that will mate with an inferior/weaker male is homo sapiens, ie you and your sisters. Of course they will resent him for that.
For the average man it's very tough to find a quality women, who is attractive, intelligent, and can sexually arouse us.
For a female, thanks to feminism, it's almost impossible.
And here's why.
The higher a female climbs up the socio-economic ladder the fewer males there are who are what she thinks are her "equals"
Those who are probably are older than her.
What woman wants a man several heads lower than her on the totem pole of life? None that I can think of.
Woman tend to be dreamers and want perfection in a world that offers none. Especially in the love department. Thats why they fall for jerks thinking if they can change him, that change represents his "love" That challenge is what draws them which is why nice guys have no chance.
You think Oprah, Connie Chung, Barbara Walters, Christie Brinkley, have men they respect? They view their men as emasculated because they are many strata above them. They subconsciously hate them for this. In effect they are THE MAN in the relationship. For a woman this is unacceptable. There is no thing as a 50-50 relationship for a woman. Even "powerful" women want a man at the end of the day they cant dominate.
A man?
A man is a man all of his life. He can pop out kids til he's 80 like Anthony Quinn with women half his age if he has resources. Correction. Willing women.
And whether he is 18 or 88 it makes no difference to him if his woman is a Hooters waitress or a lawyer. In fact he'd probably prefer a lawyer who was a Hooters waitress. More to brag to his friends about. And what female lawyer will brag to her friends about her bf/mate law clerk career?
And for an alpha male its even better. Because the world is even simpler. The average man is simply a machine and women are toys.
The higher you go the fewer there are. A man sees a room full of women and wants them all. A woman? She sees a room full of men and wants the winner.
Sad but true. Whatcha goin to do?
Quote from annaland:
The reason I ask where you guys meet these women is because I am dumbfounded by the idea of going out with someone and asking about their income. Maybe Iâm an abnormal female, but Iâd like to stand on my own two feet and not be defined by money, not to mention someone elseâs money! I mean are these women living in slums without an education and trying to get themselves out of that environment? Is that why they are so concentrated on your money?