Quote from annaland:
The reason I ask where you guys meet these women is because I am dumbfounded by the idea of going out with someone and asking about their income. Maybe Iâm an abnormal female, but Iâd like to stand on my own two feet and not be defined by money, not to mention someone elseâs money! I mean are these women living in slums without an education and trying to get themselves out of that environment? Is that why they are so concentrated on your money?
anna - because for many (most?) of them, that is the only way they will achieve wealth - by marrying it. how many babes do you know that are rich from their own labor?
this whole thread kinda started with "how to i make myself attractive to women as a trader."DannoXYZ is right on the money. when you are younger, you chase women, hoping they might find you attractive... that's ass backwards. now when i look at women i have a check list
1. younger than my waist size?
2. hot?
3. probably easy?
4. money, profession, etc.?
5. intelligent
4 and 5 are optional. face it, as a trader or speculator you aint gonna have much to talk about along those lines with most babes. better scan "people" magazine to get the latest on Paris Hilton. do you know what kinda faces i get when i tell them i dont have TV/Cable service? its like, how can you live w/o survivor! gee, i dont know, lets go to bed and you can explain it to me
... if they play hard to get, i move on, im 50 yrs old and you aint a virgin, so lets meet Mr. Winky ASAP.
i havent slept with a 38 year old woman since i was in my 20's. why would i want to even go there? so i can agree that there ex-husband was a real ass! geez, when they start down that road, its immedaitely obvious why he traded her worthless butt in for a younger hottie. nothing is uglier than a bitter divorcee, except an older, more bitter divorcee. lots of divorced women are in serious grudge mode. these types tend to travel in herds and their snapping turtles are on permanent hibernation. they usually end the night with the Ever-ready Bunny.
here are the facts: men age better than women. men generally have the lifestyle, wealth and power. when you get older you realize there is nothing magic about that little "snapping turtle," certainly nothing to entice me to BUY it... i'm into "snatch and release". the best time ive had on a date was with a hooker in south of japan, the fishermans union prez's son took me there after a great dinner and a few cocktails. real high class "house." i was at university at the time ----- baby, baby, baby! perfect date - no obscure ground rules - she was there for the money, i was there to snatch & release. Mr. Winky used to speak japanese, but he didnt need it that night - we were talking universal lingo - sex for money - straight-up!
anna, you better be careful - you're liable to marry a real dud, you are too equalitarian. theoretically, you are 100% correct, but be careful. at least you cant knock your dates up. i hope you find a good dude, someone you can "pull together with", but just in case i recommend a pre-nup, then if he flakes out you can dump his ass and move on w/out paying female equivalent of vaginamoney. it happens so rarely, i dont have a cool name for it.
BTW, they usually get a line on your income before the agree to go out with you
