Quote from vhehn:
to answer the second part of you question. i think it is the holier than thou attitude of fundamentalist christians that get them in trouble. the constant insistence that they have reveled truth in the bible in the face of overwhelming evidence that it is a collection of fables grates on people. that along with them telling people that they are "lost" and "going to hell" and "living in darkness" is a direct insult. people like me get tired of being insulted by willfully ignorant people and tend to strike back.
if christians actually followed the direction of their bible in Matt people like me would get bored and go away.
Matt.6.6 But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you
Sure, that makes sense.
Correct me if I am wrong, then, but it seems fair to say that the hostility of many atheists is the result of an anger response... a lashing out in disgust, if you will.
It seems also fair to note, then, that while disgust and anger are often justified, they are rarely effective.
Like the buddhist observation, hate is a hot coal you pick up with your bare hand to throw at someone else. The one experiencing the rage and disgust is the one who loses from the emotional transaction -- all the more so if the holy roller gets an extra dose of self righteousness from "standing up to a heathen."
There is a great line from one of the city slickers movies: "If hate were people, I would be China." Hating outspoken bible bangers because they are callous dolts is like hating all the bad drivers in L.A. Furthermore, if someone tried to gin up a proportional sense of self-righteous indignation at
all the ignorance and stupidity in this world --not just in regards to religion, but economics, politics, social interaction, technical incompetence, bad taste, everything-- their head would explode.
Perhaps it is better to recognize that mass ignorance and gross selfishness are basic evolutonary byproducts of a trial-and-error process that, while somewhat unappealing in contemplation, got us where we are today. At any given point in time, the masses are going to engage in a whole host of outrageously stupid and short-sighted activities because, on balance, we are selfish and simplistic creatures who pick and choose our beliefs for personal or societal utility, not for their veracity. Enlightenment is notable because it is such a rare thing for someone to reach for, let alone achieve.
Making peace with foolishness is like living in L.A. and recognizing that not only do bad drivers outnumber good drivers by a factor of ten to one, it has to be this way because that is how reality works. Excellence, intelligence and thoughtfulness always operate at the margins... but with just enough influence to fight against entropy and do their good work over time.
I would suggest, then, that wise atheists should find a way not just to 'deal with' their visceral reaction to fundies, but to reorder their conceptual frameworks in such a way that the perpetual handwaving of twits no longer disturbs their inner calm. This would also allow for more effective philosophical engagement with the other side on a case by case basis -- like throwing a single starfish into the sea, perhaps, but still something if one feels compelled to fight the good fight.