Well, you (trainr) still haven't answered my first question directly -- though it seems you have answered it indirectly.
By continuing to speak of proof and evidence, you apparently align yourself with the Aquinas persuasion, namely that men can be wrestled into the kingdom of God.
I wonder, though, how you would reconcile this with verses like 1 Cor 2:14, stated earlier, which argues quite clearly for a spiritual component to comprehension. In fact, the whole spirit of 'faith' runs counter to the spirit of 'proof' -- again, they are different methodologies at heart.
I find your rejection of the scientific method curious. The 'preponderance of evidence' is not so much an alternative to the scientific method, but rather a legal cousin of it: A logical process employed, most commonly in a courtroom, where a decision must be made in the absence of certainty.
The scientific method is not at odds with the preponderance of evidence standard, and no one I know of ever suggested it was. Your suggestion that the scientific method is routinely a blunt assault weapon appears unwarranted. The charge of hypercriticism can be applied to any unwanted inquiry, just as the Soviets crushed all intellectual dissenters under the guise of "insult."
It further seems to me that the theory of evolution falls under the preponderance of evidence category as much as the resurrection does, in so far as that neither can be recreated in a present day setting. Scientists who believe in evolution would say they do so because the preponderance of evidence for the theory is so strong, and because present day experiments (conducted via scientific method) so clearly and repeatedly support the truth of evolutionary hypotheses. The scientific method and preponderance of evidence standard do not spar with one another as methodologies; they inform and compliment each other.
Which leads to another point of curiosity: if the overwhelming preponderance of evidence supporting the theory of evolution is a hoax, as so many theists claim it to be, then why should the preponderance of evidence for the resurrection be any less hoax prone? I am not saying that you do this personally, but many defenders of the good book are ready and willing to declare the preponderance of evidence for evolution null and void, while yet embracing the preponderance of evidence for the resurrection with nary a hitch or a double take. This double standard is logically inconsistent at best. Perhaps it is a wise action per application of 1 Cor 2:14, in which case spiritual discernment beyond this world is involved. But that argument, of course, is off limits to you as an available-proof man, rather than a mystery-of-faith man.
There are many places where the preponderance battle is fought on fair and square terms, not just in the scientific and theological arenas. One of the most legitimate modern day complaints, for example, is that Christianity does not appear to work as advertised. What few testable claims it makes are put in doubt by the flabbiness and unremarkableness of the popular church.
Imagine a Religion Olympics with various field events. If one were to rank the great faiths by evidence of tranquility and inner peace, the buddhists or hindus would win; by evidence of moral uprightness, the mormons would win; by evidence of commitment to tradition, the jews or roman catholics would win. The protestant branch of Christianity would win only the 'most lucrative as a business' category. This leaves the honest observer at an impasse. If preponderances past cancel each other out, what do modern day preponderances suggest? Mostly that if there is someone running the show, then He / She / It does not want us to know what's behind door #1. (Of course, this conclusion would again be more in line with scripture than out of sorts with it; God has openly declared His willingness to hide Himself from those He does not choose to reveal Himself to.)
The other distressing thing, to me at least, is that Christianity is frequently argued for based on features rather than logical merits, i.e. this belief system has the most compelling narrative or the best fringe benefits, therefore this is the one you should sign on to. Veracity is left unconsidered. But that is another kettle of fish.
If you could show me that Jesus was God and I needed to accept him, then I would certainly do so, or at least give it some very strong and serious consideration. It would actually be quite strange for me to accept Christ, however, because I already did so at an earlier point in time; furthemore, my Calvinist roots assure me that salvation cannot be lost, even if wicked logic leads the lamb down a temporary stray path. Perseverance of the saints; the good old P in Tulip and all that.
But that is neither here nor there. The actual rub, you see, lies in the fact that 'showing' me or anyone else absolute metaphysical proof is not so easy. Only a dupe or a dullard would argue otherwise. The bible itself argues repeatedly against the notion of wrestling men into the kingdom of god by way of factoids and philosophies and eloquent words; scripture tells us that spiritually dead men have not ears to hear. A divine spark must first open the heart, and only then can the head participate; such references are sprinkled all throughout the new testament. These references are not a problem to the mystery-of-faith contingent, but they make it very hard for the available-proof contingent (i.e. you, Josh McDowell, Simon Greenleaf etc) to maintain a logical evidence stance consistent with the teachings of the good book. Perhaps you are only softening up the ground so that a divine seed might be planted; but even still, it is awfully hard for someone outside the club to accept that they will only be allowed to access truth after a holy anointing has taken place. Better for evangelists to acknowledge this mystical component than wrongly pretend it's all reason and evidence.
Switching tracks once again: The scientific method is a process, not a rule book or a judge and jury, and as such I don't see how it could effectively 'rule out' a hypothetical possibility. (But nor is this to imply all hypothetical possibilities are worthy of examination; Eckhardt's chocolate cakes orbiting jupiter and so forth.) If Jesus indeed rose from the dead, that means there are metaphysical explanations for certain phenomena that lie beyond our understanding, just as the shape of reality prior to the big bang lies beyond our understanding. The existence of such phenomena would not invalidate the scientific method, it would just add to the scope of phenomena that do not subject themselves to earthly measure.
In any case, the scientific method in itself is not an enemy to be defeated or a saber toothed tiger to be declawed. It is simply a tool, and a highly useful one at that. When Christians portray the scientific method as an underhanded assault weapon, what they are really saying is that scientists on the whole are intellectually dishonest, willfully fooling themselves out of the hardness of their hearts. Such a conclusion is fairly impolitic, and thus far more frequently implied than said aloud. Making such a claim in public would also create real problems in the event of a no-holds-barred evidence and reason showdown. As the Mormons have learned with recent DNA evidence refuting the American Indian / Hebrew connection, best to keep certain assertions on the sotto voce level.
The illusion many seek to promote is that the preponderance of evidence for believing in the resurrection is simple and clear cut. It is not. There are many rabbit trails, diversions and sink holes in piecing together a highly biased and emotionally charged 2,000 year old event. 'Tis perhaps easier instead to start with the modern day evidence, the downstream claims that such an event as the resurrection would validate and facilitate... but we already saw how Christianity would fair in the Great Faith Olympics.
I am not sure what your point is regarding the car key analogy. I imagine it is important, as you have repeated it, but I am missing the connection to the debate.
Personally I think your biggest problem at this point is the contradiction that exists between the notion of 'proving' Christianity's validity scientifically and the many scriptural statements that declare such efforts folly in the absence of divine inspiration / intervention. Independent of the truth or falsehood of Christianity as a belief system, I suggest this flaw in your approach needs addressing. Personally I've always thought Cornelius Van Til had the most logical and defensible position, in which the primacy of the one true God is argued for as a presupposition, no ratiocination required; poor old Aquinas is just too ambitious and too easily dismantled I'm afraid, as are the McDowellites and the intelligent design guys.
I further suggest that the preponderance of evidence standard finds its biggest problem in the lack of present day support, i.e. the evidence of ancient documents pales against a lack of supportive evidence in the present. The downstream effects are noticeably lacking, and there is a Ptolemy-like build of complexity in the ever more convoluted explanations as to why scripture is maddeningly confusing and the church is so consistently mediocre. Evolutionists can apply their insights to medicine and biology with fruitful results. Believers in the holy spirit, however, are left with a serious lack of wisdom, temperance and love to point to. One can in fact apply the scientific method to statistical studies arguing that the vast majority of professing Christians are no discernibly different in their daily lives than people of other faiths, or people of no faith for that matter, in any way that truly counts.
So many rabbit holes.