Quote from martys:
Didn't you advise me to take a break some time ago?
I think the key problem is that human beings always revert to our most practiced "simple" behaviors when under stress. That is why people lose money because they keep going back to their old pattern under stress. Proper diet, excercise and meditation help manage stress in general. I found breathing exercise to be more easily employed under fire. Once I throw my breathing out the window, I know I am in real trouble.
The other part of the equation is to practice good trading either in simulation or mentally enough that it becomes the basic pattern reverted to under stress. I don't think "bad" paper trading helps. I am currently trying a lot of visualization on "good" trading practices...
Meditation is a whole other realm to get in touch with the real deal... more like waking up from stuff we put ourselves through. If you believe trading is a lifestyle thing (I do), then it might not be bad to get into. But I would recommend to get reliable instructions from a real lineage... because a slight miss in some key points can make a huge difference. Sadly I suspect most meditators (even some instructors) are not meditating properly. Here is a concise and reliable meditation manual:
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...1/102-5989514-6046518?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance
Maybe there are other more important areas in our life that need attention.
cheers marty. thats a helpful post for me. funny how we can advise others, but sometimes we cant see the issues in our own lives (well in my case anyway!!)
coolweb et al - yes the intuition has gone to pot.
as for the intuition v if statements thing, i see gray here and this could be part of my problem now i think about it.
if have a set of criteria (if statements) which determine if i enter a trade or not. i often think they are there (intuition??) when they are not there really. i guess they are too ambiguous. maybe i need to rewrite them in a different way to reinforce their meaning to me.
my intuition (inner self/ego that wants to win) tells me the market is conforming to the if statement, (eg market is in a trading range in my timeframe) when in fact it isn't really - its trending in my timeframe, but it is in a trading range on a higher time frame, so i get greedy and tell myself its about to go into a trading range as its approaching support on both time frames.
of course i need to get my patience back and wait for the trading range to confirm its self rather than 2nd guessing.
im making all the mistakes i used to when i started out. this is a bit demoralizing!
shoot - i sure do need that break!!
chatting about this is good for me. cos i trade at home i dont have anyone else to discuss this stuff with.