Quote from cashmoney69:
Traders make lots of money, thats no secret.
Very few traders make lots of money, so your thesis is misguided. Almost all traders lose their money, break even, or make small amounts irregularly.
however I don't ever see any mention of fine luxury items here on ET.
That is why you don't see THIS
...was able to achieve great success as a trader, considering how hard it is, and all the crap we go through, I would show off my success
Who cares? There ain't no U-Haul behind the hearse. And few people really care that you are trying to look like a GQ quarterly who never matured. Try the Sam Walton approach - a billionnaire who continued wearing his overalls and driving his old truck. He was already happy with who he was.
Many millionnaires are know for being careful with their wealth, not turning into overgrown kids with an unlimited credit card
Also, many wealthy involve themself in causes and find it much more rewarding. This life is about people and purpose, not about things.
so, do you wanna be Paris Hilton or do you wanna feel that your life has meaning and purpose each day? Do you want friends who hang with you due to your money or do you want your old friends who actually care about you? The difference is that there are still plenty of people who overdose or blow out their brains, because their life only became more empty with newfound wealth.
It reminds of a story - a wealthy lawyer convinced several friends to put his gold fortune into his coffin when he died so he would have wealth in heaven.
After he died, he appeared before the pearly gates clutching his gold bars, and God asked the lawyer, "why did you bring along pavement"? All streets were already paved in gold...