wabu, u have to ask yourself what you want in life. If you want to be rich, start up a business, build it and sell it. You can swing trade on the side anyway. Day trading is imho something which you either have talent for or you don't. I would advise taking a month sabbatical from your job, day trade and see if you have the aptitude for it. The odds are you will not, nothing to be ashamed off, in fact you will have saved yourself a lot of time and money.
One month is obviously not enough to tell if someone has "talent" for daytrading.
@Visaria