Nihaba,
I would certainly consider paying for a real honest to good mentor. I have paid good money in the past for what I thought was going to be something like that. But I was young and stupid then. (Now I am 2 years older and still stupid, and somewhat lighter in wallet to boot)
I now have an enormous skepticism of anyone who purports to teach.
I have had some value from a couple of pay chatrooms, plus your free one. But a chatroom is not a mentor.
I got some very modest benefit from being in the prop trading office for a few weeks. But the majority of folks there are there to trade, not take some wannabe and teach them. Teaching takes time and effort, I know, I used to freelance teaching CAD software to designers.
I actually think I have it almost figured out. Certainly I have the mechanics, risk management, (I am VERY GOOD at that), expectancy, and general awareness of what stock trading is all about.
I can't seem to get the tape reading, trend reading, formation reading, part of it dialed in. Because of this, I have no confidence that I am seeing what I am seeing, even when I am pretty sure I am seeing things correctly, thus missing a good trade, then getting flustered and taking a bad one.
Plus I have the misfortunate habit of taking stops too quickly. I bail at the slightest whiff of an adverse move, and I scratch trades before they have a chance to develope.
This is all fixable, but I am having a tough go doing it right now.
I don't think I do trial and error, I believe (perhaps erroneously) that I have a valid reason for my trades. But if they are not working, then my trade methodology is bad. If I am killing them before they develope, then my trading is bad.
I am not a scalper, or a swing trader. I enter and hold for minutes to a couple of hours. (I could learn scalping, most of my trades last 2 min or less. that is how long it takes them to turn sour)
Any mentors (REAL mentors who make money trading,and are willing to teach me how to trade profitably) want to make a deal. How about a percentage of my profits? They will be easy to calculate, since anything above zero is on the table. (except opening orders, I have that wired pretty well)
I am manefestly NOT interested in black boxes, canned MA crossover systems and that ilk. (been there..done that) I want to learn to TRADE, not be a monkey at a keyboard.
By the way Nihaba, I think the mentor thread you described would be a dandy idea.