Abortion is a tough call. A lot of folks think its murder. And if they truly believe that in their hearts, they should vote for whoever is against it. Right?
A civilized society needs rules. Laws. That's the governments job, to enforce those laws. If people think abortion is the taking of a human life, they would be remiss in their duties as citizens if they didn't cast their vote accordingly. I don't consider that government control, I consider it democracy.
Ya know one could make the argument you are making, back in 1850. I'm sure there were plenty of people that said it was their right to own a slave, and the government "needs to stay out of our business." They did and we went to war over it, but do you not see my point? Is abortion murder? I don't know. I've never been able to figure that out one way or the other.