A milk round! You must know what a milkman is. It's not the tooth fairy that leaves those pints on your doorstep you know!
SJP, you are a diamond! I enjoy your posts, genuinely funny.
I work at a trading firm as you do and I'm profitable every month (except when I'm screwing up non farm payroll numbers like I did in Jan). We are coming from the same place but we have a different opinion on this.
It has been my experience that some people, often guys who aren't very bright or deep, are naturals at daytrading. Also very often people who are a bit more intellectual, and have a belief that in life you must work and learn to become good at something, can over-analyse trading and get themselves in all sorts of trouble. So, I know where you're coming from. Trading isn't like other areas of life, you can't manipulate your surroundings only yourself, you can't learn a definitive method of trading (there's no perfect or right way).
You can, however, improve your performance and this is something I have seen firsthand be proved by many traders including myself. I think you are right that people often delude themselves by finding "evidence" to prove what they want to believe instead of changing their approach and mentality and having the balls to look at the reality of their situation and of trading.
I have simply listed a few things that have helped me and I speak as someone who has had to go through the process changing. It can be done if you want it enough and someone should not give up on their dream because of a few initial setbacks. I've seen too many people come from constant failure to huge success to believe that someone should give up easily.
Still, you can only turn things around if you want to find a way to be consistently profitable, more than you want to find new way to do the same things.
Yours
Responding Trader
