The OP sounds like he's saying:
"I want patience and I want it NOW!"
lol...
In order to acquire patience one must first have faith. You must have faith in that which you are expecting patiently...
It is during the times of tribulation that we develop our patience... for it is then that we need the most faith to look beyond the present troubles...
This are all principles that apply to all aspects of life, including trading. One must learn to be patient in all aspects of life... you can't expect to be patient while in the market if you don't exercise patient in other, simpler, areas of your life.
Romans 5:2-4
Romans 8:24-25