a) Whats the percentage of whores in retirement (if they ever retire) who appear satisfied and happy with their choices in life? 1%? A bit more?
b) How many Johns do you know who frequented whores throughout their life time and navigated safely through marriages and raising kids? Any? If any then congratulations, they managed to lie to their closest partner and friend and kids for the entire length of their life. Bravo.
Enjoying? Dude, fact is people fuck around because they think the consequences of their actions won't catch up with them sooner or later.
a) no stats, I think especially for the girls it's a better career if they do it discreetly, the escort way. Definetely know several sugarbabies following promising studies ( i'm sorry for not beeing interested much in SBs over university age).
They should make money discreetly and open doors. But plenty of bargirls manage to get married in Thailand, usually not with the most brillant westerners, but it seems to beat the factory/rice field career - not a scene I'm much interested at the moment anyway.
b) plenty, not much of a problem, they might prefer 1 time prostitutes or lovers they support financially
You live in a strange world if around you wives fuck off after they catch their husband fooling around. It's better to keep it discreete but not a marriage breaking issue ime (and in the experience of many people around me)