Good grief man. Lay off the weed. It's making you paranoid ....and otherwise fuckin' with ya.
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First off I read a little turning 40 isn't that bad in this thread & I beg to differ. For the first time in life you have amassed enough to begin being scared. What if I die on the plane? what will my wife do? My son. My dog. What's this thing called cancer I here about? Hey mom are you going crazy? You now own three houses in a vicious downturn. Should I make a will?; Get apartment insurance? The fearlessness which so grooves your every move in youth is replaced by a cynical eye. Music begins to suck really bad.
I detest buys and sells for small amounts using big $.
too much paperwork for too little profit and too many roundrtrips.
I would call myself an " Active Trader " But really I am a day trader- I follow the market everyday. I do research every day. I plan scheme and cajole friends and relatives into stocks everyday. I probably Make 19-24 trades a qtr, trim winners a lot (maybe too much) and I'm 42 I think. (1964).
On my 40th birthday my stepfather collapsed into his food plate and had to be taken out on a stretcher. No drugs that night! Then at 41 I had some strange urine problem. I was going all the time. Things like this just aren't good for the headspace. The good news is it wasn't cancer or diabetes,- some sort of infection, and consequently the loss of fluid combined with high stress has left me at my old playing weight in football 220! Down from 250.
The question you ultimately have to ask yourself as a daytrader is am I making a steady income? And am I having fun? Do I legitimately care about anything? or am I just a glorified gamer with symbols and percentages swimming around my brain? To be always short term is to be shortsighted. Nothing beats a good 100% gainer.... and nothing beats the knowledge you can attain by studding the whole market not just fast moving flame outs. To confine your investing world to momentum is to label yourself incapable of leading- you will always be a follower and the ideas will never be yours. If money is all that matters perhaps you can live with that. I would think reflexes are the least of your worries...

And I don't believe offering the idea of fearlessness to a young trader is a particularly helpful idea. And, as far as music sucks, I am just thankful that I finally reached a point in life where I could dump some discretionary funds into my high- end system. I'll pass on the Rap, but bring on the rock-n-roll and we'll have a good time - heheh. And as a side note, my moniker was taken off the front of my CD Transport - an Audiomeca Mephisto II