Theta is inverse of gamma is pretty straight forward. If you’re positive theta that means you’re short gamma. If you’re positive more theta that means you’re short more gamma. That’s the whole point, probably why Taleb says options are the same regardless of expiration. Theta is the fair value compensation for the amount of gamma you’re on the hook for, or vice versa if you’re long options.
The edge comes in selling options that are priced at higher vol than what is realized, or buying lower implied than what is realized. In the former case you’ll collect more theta than you pay out in gamma, etc.
As you get closer to expiration, the vol you realize has a comparatively greater impact on the moneyness of the option, so gamma losses (gains) if you’re short (long) are more violent. You lose (gain) more for every consecutive dollar price goes against your position if you’re short (long) than you would with more time on the option since the terminal moneyness is affected to a greater degree. Hence compensation i.e theta for that reality rises (falls) as we approach expiration when short (long).
Thanks kindly for taking the time to write that out for me. I appreciate it.