Since I have no idea what price will do, but I have an idea that if it goes beyond this point then it more than likely means that its not going down,
You *should* have an idea what price will likely do and (as you get better) an idea what to do should price fail to do what you expected it to do. Your statement of "more than likely means that its not going down" is completely off. You are not trading CL here, this is NQ. Heck, even crude retraces and dances around multiple times before taking off.
So taking this into account, if I keep a tight stop and it gets triggered, then at least I can think I got in at the best possible place, the earliest place, and not have to worry too much if I should have held in longer or not because it went past the danger area that should mean there is no direction now.
This is completely false. If you look at your entries you're obviously not getting in at the best possible place at all. How is going long at the absolute peak of a move and then getting stopped out by 2 points then only to see the move actually happen some n retracements later an example of "no direction now?" This is what I was talking about. You're trading a 5m timeframe/mindset from a 5s chart and continually forgetting that fact while doing it.
Look, if you see a move spike up or spike down, do NOT enter. Let everyone else take their scalp profits, get shaken out, etc and then enter at support or resistance (if short) after price retreats. If you get shook out by a BS stop run, then shit happens. If price just recovers and it was an obvious shake out, re-ENTER when the setup shows up again (in the above chart it happened 3+ times).
As I said before, you're entering both too early and too late. You see the move and jump right on it when if you just looked at your past data you would see that price never just launches upwards the second some kind of demand shows up.
Had you simply waited for the inevitable retrace and entered at the low then both your tight stop would not have been hit *and* you would have had a winner.
The time you *should* have entered you did not pull the trigger. You hop on things early because that's psychological confirmation to you that it's doing what you want it to do and mentally believe that it somehow protects you from being wrong - because hey, why would you be wrong here, the price obviously went up when you were looking to go long - therefore you get long immediately out of fear of missing the move. The times when it looks "scary," and has the potential to drop, never mind the fact that it's right at a local support, you don't take it. Even when it starts heading up again *and* retraces yet again, you don't take that either. You enter at the least scary *worst* possible areas and won't enter at the most scary *best* possible areas. The market then shakes you out repeatedly because it punishes this behavior.
You know what's scary to me? Entering a long after having just seen price spike up or entering a short after having just seen price drop down. There's no way in hell I jump right on that unless it's some rare situation where one goes market then and there (and that's not common at all). When you see the setup and the signal, be *ready* for price to drop back down to where it permits you enter but also obeys your risk parameters; not the other way around. Take a look at your chart and pretend it was a 15m chart. Would you be entering those areas on a 15m chart after seeing price make those moves? I don't think so.
Your fear is driving your trading 100% from literally every angle. The reason traders are getting upset and frustrated with you is because they keep harping on this stuff but you're not forcing a change of internal behavior. People want to help, they definitely don't want to see people fail, but if they're spending time providing advice and support, you've got to meet that with equal part attempts at changing the dysfunctional behavior. You seriously have to do this or you will not be successful at all. I'm not saying it to be mean, I'm saying it to try and help.
