As a former professional pilot I'm obviously biased, so keeping that in mind:You can mark this post....
Depending how old you are, you will see flying cars in our lifetime.
Infrastructure spending on roads and bridges is the biggest waste of money of all time.
I'm not saying it's going away, our interstate system will always remain intact, as will our rails... but you are being very short-sighted with regards to what is coming down the pike.
5G, 6G whatever.... "the network"..... if you want to go to Krogers or wherever, you will back your lightweight, electrically powered, drone-like vehicle out of your garage, punch in where you want to go, and then not touch a thing. "The network" will get you there safely with no risk of any type of airborne collision or anything else. 100% hands-off.
I know it sounds crazy, but its gonna happen.
30 years tops.
The technology to allow self-flown aircraft and even helicopters to go from takeoff to landing and automatically avoid hitting other aircraft has existed for more than a decade and is pretty mature. That's not what's stopping us from the Jetsons flying cars utopia. A little secret, pilots are largely superfluous 99.99% of the time. The problem is there are 42,000 flights a day in the U.S. alone, that .01% of the time they are needed represent 4 flights a day. Turn that into everyone with an aircraft in their garage and that .01% turns into hundreds of flights a day. Those are situations where systems fail, unanticipated weather shows up (you can't fly any aircraft invented in many convective systems), or you run into things like bird strikes. Things we can't easily invent solutions for. We're not as humans in a place where we're OK with even 4 autonomous aircraft falling out of the sky every day, let alone several hundred. Even if it was safer than driving, we're not in that place. It's not intellectual, it's visceral and no amount of explaining will make it more acceptable to folks, both those who will use those vehicles and everyone else who doesn't want to get hit when one falls out of the sky on them. So it's not technology that's holding us back, it's a much harder problem we have to overcome.