The 'relaxed state' Grob writes about when one first releases himself from the restriction of goals is nicely put (incidentally, similar to the feeling I had the first time I went from long to short in one shot -- release from the restriction of my positions I guess, don't know why but the thought intruded here)
In regards to goalsetting/position holding, I never have any explicit goals in mind while I trade; however, in regards to trade exits I'm still wondering if there may be some use for an arbitrary (unrelated to entry) method of profit-taking.
I don't know if the following is along the lines of what Mike wrote about fears triggering impulsive (exit) behaviors, but I'll give it a shot. For me, the entries are by default clear and "obvious" setups, yet beyond the initial thrust that I need to capture to even stay in the trade (w/o stops getting triggered), as market movement accumulates further and further out in time and price from my entry signal, the ratio between perceived risk vs reward in keeping the position becomes increasingly hazy. An exit as symmetrically clear as the corresponding entry is very rare for me; it then becomes a judgement question of whether market movement which normally would be insufficient for justifying an entry would suffice "mentally" for an "acceptable" exit. In other words, doubts accumulate as time and price extend further out from entry; considering the position in the "now" usually results in the attitude of "well I probably wouldn't buy now but since I'm already long I can see where it goes", which is kinda lame in itself. But holding a position, one does not have the luxury of patience that one can afford while being flat and stalking an entry.
Given that I don't have pre-set goals and try to handle each trade on its own circumstances, the exits generally remain my dilemma. I'm beginning to suspect that mentally accepting exits as always suboptimal compared to entries is in the end probably just a rationalization for my current inability to cope with the real implications of what my entries entail -- that is, holding times of far greater duration in time and price than what I'm used to.
In regards to goalsetting/position holding, I never have any explicit goals in mind while I trade; however, in regards to trade exits I'm still wondering if there may be some use for an arbitrary (unrelated to entry) method of profit-taking.
I don't know if the following is along the lines of what Mike wrote about fears triggering impulsive (exit) behaviors, but I'll give it a shot. For me, the entries are by default clear and "obvious" setups, yet beyond the initial thrust that I need to capture to even stay in the trade (w/o stops getting triggered), as market movement accumulates further and further out in time and price from my entry signal, the ratio between perceived risk vs reward in keeping the position becomes increasingly hazy. An exit as symmetrically clear as the corresponding entry is very rare for me; it then becomes a judgement question of whether market movement which normally would be insufficient for justifying an entry would suffice "mentally" for an "acceptable" exit. In other words, doubts accumulate as time and price extend further out from entry; considering the position in the "now" usually results in the attitude of "well I probably wouldn't buy now but since I'm already long I can see where it goes", which is kinda lame in itself. But holding a position, one does not have the luxury of patience that one can afford while being flat and stalking an entry.
Given that I don't have pre-set goals and try to handle each trade on its own circumstances, the exits generally remain my dilemma. I'm beginning to suspect that mentally accepting exits as always suboptimal compared to entries is in the end probably just a rationalization for my current inability to cope with the real implications of what my entries entail -- that is, holding times of far greater duration in time and price than what I'm used to.
