Paper trading is simply not the real thing. It is like playing war with fake bullets, turning on a John Madden video game instead of lining up at the line of scrimmage, and sitting on a flight simulator instead of actually flying a real plane. Paper trading may look like real trading, but it simply is not. The overall experience is not comparable, and, with paper trading, neither are the fills.
I am surprised this is not obvious. But what did Voltaire say about common sense?
Does that mean that one should go out with 100K or more (or less) and just start trading, hoping that one will gain knowledge of the markets by losing? Of course not. I recommend that new traders start laughably small, and that they expect to lose. With losing comes experience, along with some lessons. All traders lose, and sometimes it is because they made mistakes while trading. The wise ones learn from their mistakes. To them losses represent tuition, and there are no traders on scholarship in this sport!
Before one puts real money on the line in any business, one should spend months, at the least, actually knowing the business inside and out. I started out with buying 100 shares of Best Buy at 16 1/4 December 27, 1996, and that was after two full years of learning. I spent hours at a microfilm machine copying charts at a university library (when I got bored working on my dissertation) and checking hundreds of books out (and reading them) on all aspects of trading. And that was before I risked one dollar.
Preparation, backtesting, more preparation, and more backtesting will show you what works and what does not. Paper trading will help get critical knowledge, but it will do little to help create the emotional balance that one needs to be a successful trader. There is nothing like having real money that represents real freedom on the line.
By preparing BEFORE trading, one will gain that confidence. Relying too much on paper trading will give you false confidence, and who needs that? I have some of that in my refrigerator, in a twelve-ounce can!
Good luck.
