Taking things personally is generally a bad idea because ego is a distraction. It gets in the way of objective analysis.
For more on this, consider the following Wikipedia description of Mushin, a concept favored by Bruce Lee:
p.s. The will to win should not be confused with the ability to detach. They are two separate spheres.
p.p.s. Practicing a detached self-assessment check at regular intervals throughout the day can improve long-term results. More here for anyone interested in that topic.
For more on this, consider the following Wikipedia description of Mushin, a concept favored by Bruce Lee:
Mushin is achieved when a personââ¬â¢s mind is free from thoughts of anger, fear, or ego during combat or everyday life. There is an absence of discursive thought and judgment, so the person is totally free to act and react towards an opponent without hesitation and without disturbance from such thoughts. At this point, a person relies not on what they think should be the next move, but what is their trained natural reaction or what is felt intuitively. It is not a state of relaxed, near-sleepfulness, however. The mind could be said to be working at a very high speed, but with no intentions, plans or direction. In analogy a clear mind is compared to a still pond, which is able to clearly reflect the moon and trees. But just as waves in the pond will distort the picture of reality, so will the thoughts we hold onto disrupt the true perception of reality.
p.s. The will to win should not be confused with the ability to detach. They are two separate spheres.
p.p.s. Practicing a detached self-assessment check at regular intervals throughout the day can improve long-term results. More here for anyone interested in that topic.