Quote from Rande Howell:
"FWIW ...to me, positive and negative are just inner judgments that I can well do without.
All I want to be is neutral ...everywhere and nowhere is how the Zens explain it.
This is the state where your preparation and training kick in .... some people refer to it as being "in the zone""
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Recently a trader explained to me what it was like for him to make a particular trade. He said that as he evaluated the set up and found that it met the conditions of his methodology, he remained in a detached, impartial, calm state of mind that stayed in discipline. No emergence of self doubt or hesitation. As he looked at the set up, he said that a voice within him said, "You have the edge in probability, let's see what happens...". And he pulled the trigger, still breathing his bellows breathing and maintaining discipline. He reported to me that when he entered the trade there was no judgement about winning or losing.
Trading became relaxed and there was no drama. How 'bout you?
Rande Howell
"Detached" ... excellent choice of word.
Things pretty much happen as you describe them, the difference being I celebrate for all sorts of reasons but never for a good day trading.
It strikes me as counter productive to the expectation I have created for myself, but that is just me.
I might add that what people describe as a "mental edge" is a prerequisite to me.
In other words I think people are wasting their time in this game unless they are prepared to change, ...which means they must first understand the need to change, ...which means they must understand that they must meet the price on the price's terms not theirs, ...which means they must understand what I have just written.
How many people are prepared to do this.
Mostly, from what I have read here, people write rhetoric, and as has been accurately pointed out "as you think, then so you do"
Price will not absorb rhetoric, it accepts only Buyers and Sellers ... so what chance do most people here have in making money from trading.