Quote from pspr:
Lighten up a bit bud. Just pretend you are a lineman playing football and if you don't put up with the trash talk from the other team you are going to get your team penalized big time. If you jump offsides, it's just 5 yards but if you smack somebody, you're out of the game.
You're right, point taken man. But I can't promise to keep my cool when my grand kids are mentioned although I should.