Quote from ZZZzzzzzzz:
The problem is the term homo is used mostly as a slur...hetero is not. Gay softens it up a bit, but is still a slur in the minds of many straights.
I think you will find patterns among nearly any group, with their own dynamics, in a bar setting.
While it appears that you have the aggressors and the "aggressorees" it really is a dance between the two, and while it usually appears the aggressors are in control, that is often the illusion of the dance.
Just ask a woman who is really in control when the man "thinks" he is....
That's just the nature of seduction, isn't it?
I wouldn't think it was as innocent as "the nature of seduction" if the little weak ones were simply depressed young men who had no pre-disposition toward homosexuality and simply looked towards the older gays because they would give them attention or pay for their drugs. It is obvious that this must happen some, my question would be Is it Rampant? Or do the obvious happy well adjusted gays tend to be attracted toward other happy well adjusted gays? There is not such an obvious grouping in a purely heterosexual setting. And in most cases heteros would be most attracted to another well adjusted hetero partner.
