Some one has a signature that says... there is nothing new under the sun. (Ecclesiastes 1:9) Almost everything in this email I learned from watching someone else, or someone else has suggested to me. I try to separate the wheat from the chaff, and pass on the good stuff. I liked this, so it is going in the Evolution. Hopefully it will help someone else.
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Hey XXXXXX,
My biggest problem is discipline. And the Lord is showing me it is not just in my trading, but in my life. LOL. Frustration, greed, and fear are not far behind.
Tell you what. Take the weekend, and write down the what specifically has to happen before you will get into a trade. So specific, that if I knew, I would be able to look at a chart, and tell exactly when, and where you entered.
Then, write down what specifically has to happen that will cause you to get out of the trade you are in. Be specific. Do you want a certain # of points, certain conditions, tick readings, prem readings, ma crossings, full moon, whatever. Again, so specific, that if I knew, I would be able to look at the chart, and tell exactly when, and where you exited.
At this stage of the game, for us, nothing is intuitive. Throw discretionary trading right out the window. You gotta follow the plan. Intuitition comes from years of playing the game. Driving a car in very intuitive for me. I can sense when that car is gonna pull out in front of me. Sometimes I am wrong, sometimes I am right (this is another dissertation, I'm sure) . I have been driving a car for (thinking) (darn, using the calculator) for 26 years. I have been trading FULL TIME, EVERY DAY, WATCHING EVERY TICK, for only 4 months. My trading is not intuitive at all. Not discretionary at all. (That is the goal) I would like it to be, then I won't have to follow a plan. When I wrote down every detail of when I should get in, and when I should get out, something clicked, I went from fantasizing about driving (trading) to getting my learners permit (permit to trade).
Then I started papertrading my new found system. New found cuz I got it out of my head, and on paper. That is the key. Just like learning the clutch. Hopefully you know how to drive a standard tranny. If not, this whole analogy is going down in flames. LOL. But once you have the timing of the relationship between the clutch, gas, and gear shift, you don't have to think about it any more. Once you have it down on paper, you don't have to think about it any more. All you have to do is just do it. Then, you start learning, not the mechanics of driving, but driving itself. Learning how to slow at a stop sign. Anticipating changes in lights. Heck, you can even roll down the window while driving!!!!!
Now you are ready to take the test. Trade real money. Now it is not your dad, mom, older sibling, or uncle Johnny sitting across from you. It is the State Policeman. It is the market. And she will flunk you in a heartbeat. Not because she can, or has it out for you, or doesn't like the color of your t-shirt. To her, you are just another punk kid, and if you don't play by the rules, her rules, you don't get the license to trade and you blow out your first account. Lot's of the drivers on the road, and in the markets today, failed the first time. The bad news is that she (the cop) changes the rules from time to time. The good news is that once you know some of the rules, and consistently apply them (your entries, exits, and trade management) you can pass her test, or trade consistently profitable.
I don't know alot about that cop that is sitting in the passenger seat of my car, but I am learning more about her everyday.
Then it is up to you, what kind of driver you want to be. Every kid with a new license want to be a Dale Ehrnhardt (I now live in NC, if I said anyone else, I'd be hog tied)(I don't like NASCAR anyway) or Market Wizard, but few make it that far. Besides, she is always watching you, waiting for you to screw up (late entries, early exits, poor MM, lousy DD, etc.) and give you a ticket and take your money. If you want to race, don't race down main street, race on the race track. Drive normal, and when you see a little pile of money sitting on the curb, slow down, use your turn signal, stop, open the door and pick it up. Don't cut across 4 lanes of traffic, and mow down some innocent pedestrians. You will get a ticket, and it will cost you 10X more than that little pile of money. You may get away with it once, or even twice, but you will get burned.
Me, I just want to drive and not have my rates jump up by having an accident, or getting a ticket, the first few years, by blowing up my second account.
Sorry this went on so long. Looking back, I think this isn't about you, but more about me. All this to say, write down your plan, to the T. You'll be amazed, by what you will see. The truth of a concise, thought out, and written trading plan will set you free. And a good driver/trader, you won't have to think about, but you will be. When you can follow plan A, and not the intuitive/discretionary plan B.
H