This guy is messed up , in the head , juding by what bs he posts about psychology.Instead he should start a journal , detailing the emotions etc of taking a trade.Also he fears a large loss , calls himself a small stop , but that is a receiple for disaster.Name should wide stops ,fear nothing.
May I correct your misunderstanding : my position sizing were large, not my stops.
So that a 6 pip moves could kill a trade that had good foundations, after I up the position sizing 20 folds.
I am fine talking about my faibles, all the more that these have been sorted.
I really should have updated, but I was waiting for a discussion with the coach first.
So the update :
* I no longer up my position sizes based on emotions.
Whenever I feel like upping sizes, I simply get flat. So I am actually taking into account what I feel -
desire of a bad trading behaviour - to get flat.
* I am no longer looking for a mega winner. It is ok to accumulate during a trading session.
An exemple: I went long on gbpusd, with a 80 pips profit targets. It moved fine, at 30 pips, it started to get wobly ( trading range), then a breakout took place, but the breakout was too early. In the past, I'd have thought first of the 80 pips targets, and not cash in the 30 pips, with the risk of turning a winner into a loser. I simply cashed in at 30 pips. Moved to other trades. And repeated. Ok; did not make my 1200$/day target, settled for 600$ for the day. Later on checked the gbpusd, the first breakout failed, and it went back to retest some lows, after which it came back to reach the 80 pips target. Before, I'd say I left money on the table, now I look to it as I did not jeopardize a winner by risking it into turning to a loser.
The self-sabotage has effectively been dealt with. Now, I could be stressing because of the year loss ( just now at around 12 000$) , but I will not. Just trading my approach.
I will now need to find a trading 'problem' to bring to the coach.