Quote from Gabe2004:
What I do suffer from is the desire to be right or conversely, not wanting to be wrong.
This is a serious problem which prevents you from thinking in terms of probabilities.
In trading, these actions are
wrong:
Hesitating, then chasing an entry
Positioning in advance of a valid signal in an effort to get a better price
Moving stops around to micro-manage a trade (or removing a stop loss altogether to avoid realizing a loss)
After getting stopped out nearly to the tick of a turn, immediately trading again to get revenge on the market for "screwing" you
Trading without any valid signal based on what you
think price
should do
And so on...
What is NEVER wrong is taking a loss on a valid trade according to your risk management rules. The trade is not wrong, nor are you wrong for having taken it.
I've posted this before, but it's a gem:
Mark Douglas: Thereâs no way to know the sequence of wins and losses. If we want to be able to trade our methodology in an effective fashion, to be able to utilize this methodology in a way where we can extract the maximum amount of profit that it makes available to us based on the pattern that it identifies, we have to do it in certain ways.
Our mind has to be free to be able to execute these trades without making trading errors and the
trading errors come from believing that because the pattern is present, that itâs going to give me a winning trade on THIS one; THIS trade is going to be a winner. You canât think that way. Thatâs the way the typical trader thinks. The typical trader thinks "Iâm not gonna put on this trade unless I think itâs gonna be a winner or why would I do it?â
Trading a technical methodology or a technical pattern does not have anything to do with being right or wrong. Itâs just an odds game. Youâve got to be able to take every single trade because you donât know the sequence of wins and losses. Youâve got to be able to identify what your risk is and thatâs simply "How much am I willing to spend to find out if other traders are going to come into this market and bid it higher than my price or offer lower than my price if I sold?â
The solution is to change your mind, to change the way you think. [Youâve] got to eliminate the potential to think that the marketâs going to disappoint you.
And the way [you] eliminate the potential is by understanding that trading is not about being right or wrong. Itâs a probability game.
There are stages of development such as learning how to think in probabilities so the market doesnât have the potential to cause us to feel emotional pain.
When you put on a trade and it doesnât work, all it really means is that some of the traders didnât come into the market that had the same belief that you had, or the same conviction about this market doing whatever it is you thought it was going to do. You have to learn to walk away.
We canât predict collective human behavior. The methodologies that we have access to, these mathematical formulas, do that for us. But you have to understand that
thereâs no possible way that these mathematical formulas can predict the outcome of these patterns on a trade by trade basis, only on a series of trades.
So when I get a signal from my methodology, at the most fundamental level what this is telling me is that the odds are in my favor that somebody is going to come into the market (this is what the pattern means) and bid it higher than here if I bought or offer it lower than here if I sold. Thatâs all that itâs saying.
Now theyâre either gonna come or theyâre not, and so as a result I donât look at this as being a ârightâ or a âwrongâ; I look at this as "How much distance am I going to give the market to move away from my entry point to tell me that theyâre either going to come or theyâre not, and any further is not worth the cost of finding out.â
Once you shift perspective, everything changes. âDonât think, thereâs nothing to think about. When the pattern presents itself, thereâs nothing to think about.â