Quote from stevegee58:
My wife and I already decided and made it clear up front to our kids that:
1) We would not be co-signing loans for college, cars, houses, etc.
2) We would not endanger our future financial security by borrowing from our IRAs or 401Ks for college.
3) The net tuition after scholarships has to be less than or equal to in-state college tuition.
4) The kids will take out Stafford loans every year they're in college.
We may sound like a couple of hard-asses, but we're making sure that no one gets in over their head in debt. The Stafford loans ensure that the kids have some skin in the game, yet the financial burden isn't that great when they start working.
College is not an entitlement. If their grades are sub-par, they get yanked home to attend community college.
20-30 years ago this would have been considered a perfectly reasonable position, and it is clearly the one of a parent who cares about his child's future happiness and financial security. The value of today's society are so off kilter that your approach is seen as radical and somehow abusive to your children. I say Bravo to you and your wife Steve, and I dare say that your children will too when they wake up at 30 and 40 years of age and have no student debt while all their friends are still paying tens of thousands in interest.
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