It takes a lot of screen to be consistent at this game. There are many things you don't notice initially that the market does but notice later on through screen time. Paper trading does provide that screen time while it doesn't hurt you. Paper trade until you are consistent and to where you can't exactly remember the last losing day you had on paper. Then you know you are ready to take the next step. Also when you do take the next step. Understand that because it's real, more emotions come into play. You need to be disciplined in keeping them in check. That's the problem I deal with all the time. I do well with paper so I turn back to doing the real thing. Paper trading helps get the mechanics of trading down and real trading involves getting emotions in check. It's about taking steps in the right direction first. We all want to jump in and start making money right away but with anything in life, it's not easy and you have to work at it. Yes, baring some huge catastrophe, the markets will be there when you need it. You can come back to it when you are fully ready.
You have a day job which is good but you also need to put forth a lot of effort to do this for the long term. I don't have a day job so I'm able to more time and effort into this venture. Be ready if need be, to spend time on the weekends studying charts & your old trades. That's what I do. I print out charts at the end of the day. I have a folder of them now that I can refer back to when I want to see patterns or mistakes I've made in the past. Every mistake I've made has an explanation. Some of it just comes down to simple stuff like not waiting long enough, getting scared and exiting, or misreading the chart. I've just spent 10 hours over the Christmas weekend, researching, reading, and studying the material. Whether it will pay off remains to be seen. Emerse yourself with this. Eat, breathe, and sleep this stuff if you want to be good. You just have to ask yourself how bad do you want it? Those who do it non-chalant and sparingly, become the 95% who give up and don't make it.
I'm not expert here but if you really want to get a hold of me, give me your email if you can't access your PM (private messaging) here. Good luck.