I am back. For a bit at least.
I want to say something about ego, emotions, and thoughts and the psychology of them as they relate to trading.
I here people say “you must lose your Ego,” “stay humble” “control your thoughts” trade without emotions..be like a machine”
First off, the market does not know if you are humble as mud pie or an egotistical bastard.
Second, you are human you cannot stop your thoughts. Your brain uses 20% if your bodies energy and IT’s job is to generate thoughts and you, nor I, can stop it from doing so. Even while we sleep it is at work. What we can learn to do is to entertain or not to entertain the thoughts it produces. We can choose to not dwell on them expecting them to soon pass much like a cloud that floats across the sky.
Third, we are humans. We cannot somehow divorce ourself from our emotions. We are not an unfeeling machine. Furthermore, the market knows nothing about what you are feeling at the moment. Nor does it care about your feelings. Your personal elation, anger, sadness doesn’t change the auction.
To sum of the above: the market doesn’t know if you are humble or egotistical. It doesn’t know what you are thinking about any given trade. Nor does it know what you are feeling.
It doesn’t even know if you are making money or losing money. You and your broker may know but not the market in general.
Furthermore, it simply doesn’t care. You are insignificant to it.
The market is composed of institutions battling it out trying to take money from each other. We retail traders just get caught the middle of all the fray.
The market is a big auction. Nobody, not even the institutions can know all the variables. Institutions can and do win and lose and do read the auction right and do read PA wrong.
Our job as retail traders is to have a system that works for us enough to extract $$$ from the market. Next, we need to learn to discern what is going on in this big auction that is in front of our eyes. Then we need to determine which side is winning bears or the bulls. The idea is to join lockstep in with the winning side and jump out when the other side shows they now have the upper hand.
As far as psychology goes we need to learn our individual weaknesses and strengths and how we can change them, better them, and capitalize on them. We have to learn how we can live with our ego, thoughts, emotions as they relate to our trading. How we can better utilize them and deal with them in such a way that they “help” us in our trading. Your mind is powerful. Thought are powerful. Emotions are powerful. Ego is powerful. None can be eliminated. Neither can they be controlled. Neither can they just simply be laid aside like a brick. But we can all learn how to live with them and manage them in such a way they become can become a (plus) in our trading.
Some of the most egotistical bastards have made boatloads of money trading and some of the most humble meek traders are still waiting for their boat to come in many years later.