Food for thought.....
“At one point, when you become consistently profitable in the markets, the success you might be craving so much right now will not matter to you as much anymore – trust me, it becomes less and less impressive. Winning trades become boring, losing trades equally boring– not void of emotions, just boring! You will feel the need to reiterate that sense of striving for something you care about, and trading will not provide you with that anymore. There comes a point where it becomes just a means to an end. Notice at this juncture that very few people are going to say, “oh, I’m done, I met all my goals, and now I am just going to sit down and do nothing.” Even when things go as well as they can go, the search for happiness and the very drive to keep boredom and dissatisfaction away continues. So in this context, many people have begun to wonder whether or not a greater and deeper form of well-being exists. A form of well-being that is not contingent upon merely reiterating one’s pleasures and avoiding one’s pain. Is there a form of happiness that exists in the midst of old age, before one’s desires get gratified, in the very midst of life’s vicissitudes, death, trading losses, etc..? I think this question lies in the periphery of everyone’s mind. For the longest time, I have been pondering on that question. And I challenge you to do so as well. Start observing your thoughts, your desires, your feelings, your behaviors... and become the observer of your own life. Believe me... by doing so you will discover many things about the nature of living. What I have discovered over the years, after doing so much introspection, is that happiness is not a place you go to. Happiness is not a person; it is not a trade, it is not a successful career. Happiness is not a dream you achieve. Happiness just is! We can create lives that are truly worth living given that these lives ineluctably come to an end. And, the capacity for us to see those changes and to live those lives is largely dependent on the frame we put on the present moment. No matter where you are and no matter what you do; no matter how you look and no matter how much or less you have, you will find fulfillment in your life the moment you drop your self-concerns and focus on what is here and now. If you are not happy in those specific situations; if you are not happy with what you have and with who you are now, you will not find happiness by merely reiterating your pleasures. You may delude yourself into thinking otherwise, but in the end, you will go back to feeling miserable and unfulfilled. If there is a form of happiness that exists that is not conditional, then it should be found in the present. It is difficult for most of us to accept this fact because if we do, we will have to wake up and take responsibility for how we feel and for our actions. We will have to take responsibility for our own lives, and this is challenging, more so scary. For those of you who are on this journey of self-discovery and self-mastery, as time goes by, and as you travel farther and farther in your journey, you will discover what happiness is all about– and what is not. You will see that it is not money; it is not big houses, shiny cars... It is not even found in people but rather in having a meaning, a purpose in life, larger than your sense of self. It is always about giving, about sharing what is best about ourselves with others, because, when we do so, we offer others the possibility of happiness and well-being. Nowadays, I find my purpose by living simply and by reducing my physical footprint on this earth. I also share a portion of my profits from my different endeavors to charity whenever the markets are good to me on any specific year. I find my purpose by writing and helping other traders not merely survive but make real changes in their trading because I know success in trading is possible for anyone. I am a living proof that anyone can do this. I don’t have anything extraordinary... I don’t possess I don’t possess any special talent. I am just a regular guy who didn’t give up.”
Excerpt from Yvan Byeajee’s book: Zero to Hero: How I went from being a losing trader to a consistently profitable one—-a true story
“At one point, when you become consistently profitable in the markets, the success you might be craving so much right now will not matter to you as much anymore – trust me, it becomes less and less impressive. Winning trades become boring, losing trades equally boring– not void of emotions, just boring! You will feel the need to reiterate that sense of striving for something you care about, and trading will not provide you with that anymore. There comes a point where it becomes just a means to an end. Notice at this juncture that very few people are going to say, “oh, I’m done, I met all my goals, and now I am just going to sit down and do nothing.” Even when things go as well as they can go, the search for happiness and the very drive to keep boredom and dissatisfaction away continues. So in this context, many people have begun to wonder whether or not a greater and deeper form of well-being exists. A form of well-being that is not contingent upon merely reiterating one’s pleasures and avoiding one’s pain. Is there a form of happiness that exists in the midst of old age, before one’s desires get gratified, in the very midst of life’s vicissitudes, death, trading losses, etc..? I think this question lies in the periphery of everyone’s mind. For the longest time, I have been pondering on that question. And I challenge you to do so as well. Start observing your thoughts, your desires, your feelings, your behaviors... and become the observer of your own life. Believe me... by doing so you will discover many things about the nature of living. What I have discovered over the years, after doing so much introspection, is that happiness is not a place you go to. Happiness is not a person; it is not a trade, it is not a successful career. Happiness is not a dream you achieve. Happiness just is! We can create lives that are truly worth living given that these lives ineluctably come to an end. And, the capacity for us to see those changes and to live those lives is largely dependent on the frame we put on the present moment. No matter where you are and no matter what you do; no matter how you look and no matter how much or less you have, you will find fulfillment in your life the moment you drop your self-concerns and focus on what is here and now. If you are not happy in those specific situations; if you are not happy with what you have and with who you are now, you will not find happiness by merely reiterating your pleasures. You may delude yourself into thinking otherwise, but in the end, you will go back to feeling miserable and unfulfilled. If there is a form of happiness that exists that is not conditional, then it should be found in the present. It is difficult for most of us to accept this fact because if we do, we will have to wake up and take responsibility for how we feel and for our actions. We will have to take responsibility for our own lives, and this is challenging, more so scary. For those of you who are on this journey of self-discovery and self-mastery, as time goes by, and as you travel farther and farther in your journey, you will discover what happiness is all about– and what is not. You will see that it is not money; it is not big houses, shiny cars... It is not even found in people but rather in having a meaning, a purpose in life, larger than your sense of self. It is always about giving, about sharing what is best about ourselves with others, because, when we do so, we offer others the possibility of happiness and well-being. Nowadays, I find my purpose by living simply and by reducing my physical footprint on this earth. I also share a portion of my profits from my different endeavors to charity whenever the markets are good to me on any specific year. I find my purpose by writing and helping other traders not merely survive but make real changes in their trading because I know success in trading is possible for anyone. I am a living proof that anyone can do this. I don’t have anything extraordinary... I don’t possess I don’t possess any special talent. I am just a regular guy who didn’t give up.”
Excerpt from Yvan Byeajee’s book: Zero to Hero: How I went from being a losing trader to a consistently profitable one—-a true story