Close the atm before end of the year. “Like kind” for wash sales is a bit vague.
I'm not really sure what you're asking or telling me but rather than guessing, here's the summary of the sequence on one position closed:
Worthless zero bid on long $62.50 puts expiring Jan 20th. Tried selling them for 1 cent for several days. No takers. Traded out via a calendar:
STC 1/20 62.50p / BTO 12/27 $85p for 34 cents
Immediately STC 12/27 $85p for 32 cents
Loss of 2 cents and tax harvesting completed. All options gone. Gubbermint gets less. Clear as mud?