hey tampa
i was gonna write a kinda wordy "advice" response (i hate those!) to you, but i notice that you only begun this thread a week ago. so i think i'll give what you're attempting a bit more time to pan out (even though it seems you're already talking about making wholesale changes. christ man! give it a chance!)
i'll just say a couple of things for now:
1) if you have an objective stop-loss point, there should be no reason in the freakin world to feel "scared" to take a trade. you're trading US index futures for fucks sakes! the moment your stop gets hit, YOU'RE OUTTA THERE, in a split second!! how fuckin hard can that be???? shit, with an objective stop loss there's practically not a trade in the world i wouldn't take. with an objective stop loss, the Sears tower could be taken out and i'd bottom pick it. (not that i trade that way, just tryin to make a point.)
2) your style seems to take very few trades a day, often less than 5. i'm not sure what the percent accuracy of your style is, but let's assume its about 50%. with less than 5 trades a day, its practically a given that your gonna have some days with only 1 or 0 wins. practically a given that you're gonna have a couple or three days in a row like that! right now, your reaction to such events seems to be, "oh my god! the method sucks! i'm giving up on it! look at so-and-so's method, he had 10 winners today! argghh poor me!". bro, if your style does indeed have a positive expectancy, you gotta give yourself a chance to realise that expectancy! hint: fuck the day to day performance! take the trades as robotically as possible, and keep that working eye

)) on the big picture!!
i notice you've tweaked a bit in the last couple of posts and now you're posting like you're the greatest thing since sliced bread. (unless you're kiddin. hope so!) all the best to you. you can tell me to go screw myself if you like, but imo, a manic-depressive attitude like that is an express ticket to the poor house.