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A monk asked Wei-kuan:
“Where is the Way?”
The master said:
“Right in front of us.”
The monk charged:
“Then why can’t I see it?”
The master replied:
“Because of your selfishness, you cannot see it.”
The monk quickly responded:
“I’m so selfish, I can’t see it; but Your Holiness can see it?”
The master (clearly a very charitable man) said:
“As long as ‘me’ and ‘you’ are involved in this, the situation gets complicated and nobody can see it.”
This monk, on the other hand, was a lot of work – maybe he should have hired a nanny, but
instead, he insisted with the Zen master:
“So, when there is neither ‘me’ nor ‘you’, the Way can be finally seen?”
Wei-kuan (so generous), gave this monk(ey) some banana candy to chew on:
“When there is neither ‘me’ nor ‘you’, who is there to see it?”