I'll go one further. Anytime in trading you see some so-called great trader who comes across as some laid-back grandfatherly type with lots of time on his hands to give you a helping hand at trading (for a price, of course), there is only one smart thing to do:
Run away! Lose that money in the market and learn from your own mistakes.
Better yet, go down to the public library, check out a copy of "Reminiscenses of a Stock Operator" and read it several times to where you really understand what the author is saying. [like: ADD to winners and get rid of losers QUICKLY]. There, big secret revealed. Now go out there and practice that and give all the trader/vendors out there your middle finger.
None of you would have ever hear of Jesse Livermore if he had traded the way most of you are trading...starting heavy and taking contracts off as the trade goes your way. If you're going to scalp then SCALP...all-in/all-out. If you're looking to catch a big ride then start small and ADD TO YOUR POSITION as the trade goes your way.
If you do this, then you won't be hanging around strange old men in long, ugly beards doling out their trading wisdom for a price.